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1 Corinthians 7:7-9

Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind. But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn.

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But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment. Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind. But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn. But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.

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  • WEB World English Bible

    Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.

    But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am.

    But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn.

  • TYNDALE Tyndale New Testament (1534)

    For I wolde that all men were as I my selfe am: but every man hath his proper gyfte of God one after this maner another after that.

    I saye vnto the vnmaried men and widdowes: it is good for them yf they abyde even as I do.

    But and yf they cannot abstayne let them mary. For it is better to mary then to burne.

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  • GNV Geneva Bible (1599)

    For I woulde that all men were euen as I my selfe am: but euery man hath his proper gift of God, one after this maner, and another after that.

    Therefore I say vnto the vnmaried, and vnto the widowes, It is good for them if they abide euen as I doe.

    But if they cannot abstaine, let them marrie: for it is better to marrie then to burne.

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Cross-references (19)

  • Matthew 19:11-12 (v7) But he said to them, “Not all men can receive this saying, but those to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way from…
  • 1 Corinthians 7:2 (v9) But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
  • 1 Timothy 5:14 (v9) I desire therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, rule the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for insulting.
  • 1 Timothy 5:11 (v9) But refuse younger widows, for when they have grown wanton against Christ, they desire to marry,
  • Romans 12:6 (v7) having gifts differing according to the grace that was given to us: if prophecy, let’s prophesy according to the proportion of our faith;
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  • 1 Corinthians 7:32 (v8) But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord;
  • 1 Corinthians 9:5 (v7) Have we no right to take along a wife who is a believer, even as the rest of the apostles, and the brothers of the Lord, and Cephas?
  • 1 Corinthians 7:8 (v7) But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am.
  • 1 Corinthians 12:4 (v7) Now there are various kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:34-35 (v8) There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both…
  • 1 Corinthians 12:11 (v7) But the one and the same Spirit produces all of these, distributing to each one separately as he desires.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:7 (v8) Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.
  • 1 Corinthians 7:26-27 (v8) Therefore I think that because of the distress that is on us, that it’s good for a man to remain as he is. Are you bound to a wife? Don’t…
  • 1 Corinthians 7:28 (v9) But if you marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to…
  • Acts 26:29 (v7) Paul said, “I pray to God, that whether with little or with much, not only you, but also all that hear me today, might become such as I am,…
  • 1 Corinthians 7:36 (v9) But if any man thinks that he is behaving inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of her age, and if need so requires,…
  • 1 Corinthians 7:39 (v9) A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires,…
  • 1 Corinthians 7:1 (v8) Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman.
  • 1 Corinthians 9:15 (v7) But I have used none of these things, and I don’t write these things that it may be done so in my case; for I would rather die, than that…

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John Calvin 1540 · Public Domain On vv7–9 7. For I should wish, that all. This is…

7. For I should wish, that all. This is connected with the exposition of the foregoing statement; for he does not fail to intimate, what is the more convenient way, but he wishes every one to consider what has been given him. Why, then, has he, a little before, spoken not by way of commandment? It is for this reason, that he does not willingly constrain them to marry, but rather desires that they may be free from that necessity. As this, however, is not free to all, he has respect to infirmity. If this passage had been duly weighed, that perverse superstition connected with the desire of celibacy, which is the root and cause of great evils, would never have gained a footing in the world. Paul here expressly declares, that every one has not a free choice in this matter, because virginity is a special gift, that is not conferred upon all indiscriminately. Nor does he teach any other doctrine than what Christ himself does, when he says, that

all men are not capable of receiving this saying. (Matthew 19:11.)

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Paul, therefore, is here an interpreter of our Lord’s words, when he says that this power has not been given to all — that of living without marriage.

What, in the meantime, has been done? Every one, without having any regard to his power, has, according to his liking, vowed perpetual continency. Nor has the error as to this matter been confined to the common people and illiterate persons; for even the most eminent doctors, devoting themselves unreservedly to the commendation of virginity, and forgetting human infirmity, have overlooked this admonition of Paul — nay rather, of Christ himself. Jerome, blinded by a zeal, I know not of what sort, does not simply fall, but rushes headlong, into false views. Virginity, I acknowledge, is an excellent gift; but keep it in view, that it is a gift. Learn, besides, from the mouth of Christ and of Paul, that it is not common to all, but is given only to a few. Guard, accordingly, against rashly devoting what is not in your own power, and what you will not obtain as a gift, if forgetful of your calling you aspire beyond your limits.

At the same time the ancients erred even in their estimate of virginity, for they extol it as if it were the most excellent of all virtues, and wish it to be regarded as the worship of God. Even in this there is a dangerous error; and now follows another — that, after celibacy had begun to be so much esteemed, many, vying with each other, rashly vowed perpetual continency, while scarcely the hundredth part of them were endowed with the power and gift. Hence, too, a third sprung up — that the ministers of the Church were forbidden to enter into marriage, as a kind of life unbecoming the holiness of their order. As for those who, despising marriage, rashly vowed perpetual continency, God punished their presumption, first, by the secret flames of lust; and then afterwards, by horrible acts of filthiness. The ministers of the Churches being prohibited from lawful marriage, the consequence of this tyranny was, that the Church was robbed of very many good and faithful ministers; for pious and prudent men would not ensnare themselves in this way. At length, after a long course of time, lusts, which had been previously kept under, gave forth their abominable odor. It was reckoned a small matter for those, in whom it would have been a capital crime to have a wife, to maintain with impunity concubines, that is, prostitutes; but no house was safe from the impurities of the priests. Even that was reckoned a small matter; for there sprung up monstrous enormities, which it were better to bury in eternal oblivion than to make mention of them by way of example.

John Calvin's Commentaries (1540-1563) — public domain. Text from the Calvin Translation Society English edition (1840s-50s) via the Christian Classics Ethereal Library (ccel.org). Calvin's coverage is partial (roughly two-thirds of the Bible); uncommented books and verses are honest gaps, never fabricated. The 19th-century editor's footnotes and remarks are omitted so the notes are faithfully Calvin's own voice.

Geneva Bible translators 1599 · Public Domain On vv7–9 I wish.
John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv7–9 7 For I would that all men were even…
Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On vv7–9 I would that all men were even as I…
John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv7–9 For I would that all men were even as…
John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain On vv7–8 For I would that all men were herein even…
Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain On vv7–9 Verse 7. For I would that all men, c.]…
Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain On v8 1Co 7:8-9. I say, therefore — I give this…
Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain On vv7–9 For I would ... - I would prefer.
Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On vv7, 9 I would, or I could wish you all were…
Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On vv7–9 even as I--having tile gift of continence (Mat 19:11-12).…
Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On vv7–9 7. For—Greek, but. This verse does not assign a…
The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On v7 7. every man hath his proper gift of God]…
Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv7–9 (7) For I would that all men were even…
The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On vv7–9 For I would. The verb here used is thelo…
B. W. Johnson 1891 · Public Domain On vv7–9 7. I would that all men were as I…
William B. Godbey 1900 · Public Domain On v7 7-9. “I wish you that all men were as…
J. W. McGarvey 1914 · Public Domain On vv7–9 Yet I would that all men were even as…
unfoldingWord translationNotes 2017 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On v8 the unmarried
Tyndale Open Study Notes 2022 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On v8 7:8-9 Paul’s general advice is that it’s better to…
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