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1 Samuel 18:18-23

David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life, or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?”

But at the time when Merab, Saul’s daughter, should have been given to David, she was given to Adriel the Meholathite as wife. Michal, Saul’s daughter, loved David; and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him. Saul said, I will give her to him, that she may be a snare to him, and that the hand of the Philistines may be against him. Therefore Saul said to David, “You shall today be my son-in-law a second time.” Saul commanded his servants, “Talk with David secretly, and say, ‘Behold, the king has delight in you, and all his servants love you. Now therefore be the king’s son-in-law.’ ”

Saul’s servants spoke those words in the ears of David. David said, “Does it seem to you a light thing to be the king’s son-in-law, since I am a poor man, and little known?”

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David behaved himself wisely in all his ways; and Yahweh was with him. When Saul saw that he behaved himself very wisely, he stood in awe of him. But all Israel and Judah loved David; for he went out and came in before them. Saul said to David, “Behold, my elder daughter Merab, I will give her to you as wife. Only be valiant for me, and fight Yahweh’s battles.” For Saul said, “Don’t let my hand be on him, but let the hand of the Philistines be on him.” David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life, or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?”

But at the time when Merab, Saul’s daughter, should have been given to David, she was given to Adriel the Meholathite as wife. Michal, Saul’s daughter, loved David; and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him. Saul said, I will give her to him, that she may be a snare to him, and that the hand of the Philistines may be against him. Therefore Saul said to David, “You shall today be my son-in-law a second time.” Saul commanded his servants, “Talk with David secretly, and say, ‘Behold, the king has delight in you, and all his servants love you. Now therefore be the king’s son-in-law.’ ”

Saul’s servants spoke those words in the ears of David. David said, “Does it seem to you a light thing to be the king’s son-in-law, since I am a poor man, and little known?”

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  • WEB World English Bible

    David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life, or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?”

    But at the time when Merab, Saul’s daughter, should have been given to David, she was given to Adriel the Meholathite as wife.

    Michal, Saul’s daughter, loved David; and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him.

    Saul said, I will give her to him, that she may be a snare to him, and that the hand of the Philistines may be against him. Therefore Saul said to David, “You shall today be my son-in-law a second time.”

    Saul commanded his servants, “Talk with David secretly, and say, ‘Behold, the king has delight in you, and all his servants love you. Now therefore be the king’s son-in-law.’ ”

    Saul’s servants spoke those words in the ears of David. David said, “Does it seem to you a light thing to be the king’s son-in-law, since I am a poor man, and little known?”

  • KJV King James Version

    And David said unto Saul, Who am I? and what is my life, or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son in law to the king?

    But it came to pass at the time when Merab Saul’s daughter should have been given to David, that she was given unto Adriel the Meholathite to wife.

    And Michal Saul’s daughter loved David: and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him.

    And Saul said, I will give him her, that she may be a snare to him, and that the hand of the Philistines may be against him. Wherefore Saul said to David, Thou shalt this day be my son in law in the one of the twain.

    And Saul commanded his servants, saying, Commune with David secretly, and say, Behold, the king hath delight in thee, and all his servants love thee: now therefore be the king’s son in law.

    And Saul’s servants spake those words in the ears of David. And David said, Seemeth it to you a light thing to be a king’s son in law, seeing that I am a poor man, and lightly esteemed?

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  • JPS JPS Tanakh (1917)

    And David said unto Saul: 'Who am I, and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?'

    But it came to pass at the time when Merab Saul's daughter should have been given to David, that she was given unto Adriel the Meholathite to wife.

    And Michal Saul's daughter loved David; and they told Saul, and the thing pleased him.

    And Saul said: 'I will give him her, that she may be a snare to him, and that the hand of the Philistines may be against him.' Wherefore Saul said to David: 'Thou shalt this day be my son-in-law through the one of the twain.'

    And Saul commanded his servants: 'Speak with David secretly, and say: Behold, the king hath delight in thee, and all his servants love thee; now therefore be the king's son-in-law.'

    And Saul's servants spoke those words in the ears of David. And David said: 'Seemeth it to you a light thing to be the king's son-in-law, seeing that I am a poor man, and lightly esteemed?'

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Cross-references (32)

  • 2 Samuel 7:18 (v18) Then David the king went in, and sat before Yahweh; and he said, “Who am I, Lord Yahweh, and what is my house, that you have brought me…
  • 1 Samuel 9:21 (vv18, 23) Saul answered, “Am I not a Benjamite, of the smallest of the tribes of Israel? And my family the least of all the families of the tribe of…
  • Judges 7:22 (v19) They blew the three hundred trumpets, and Yahweh set every man’s sword against his fellow and against all the army; and the army fled as…
  • 1 Samuel 18:17 (v21) Saul said to David, “Behold, my elder daughter Merab, I will give her to you as wife. Only be valiant for me, and fight Yahweh’s battles.”…
  • 1 Samuel 18:23 (v18) Saul’s servants spoke those words in the ears of David. David said, “Does it seem to you a light thing to be the king’s son-in-law, since I…
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  • 2 Samuel 21:8 (v19) But the king took the two sons of Rizpah the daughter of Aiah, whom she bore to Saul, Armoni and Mephibosheth; and the five sons of Michal…
  • Exodus 3:11 (v18) Moses said to God, “Who am I, that I should go to Pharaoh, and that I should bring the children of Israel out of Egypt?”
  • Exodus 10:7 (v21) Pharaoh’s servants said to him, “How long will this man be a snare to us? Let the men go, that they may serve Yahweh, their God. Don’t you…
  • Ruth 2:10 (v18) Then she fell on her face and bowed herself to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor in your sight, that you should take…
  • 1 Samuel 18:26 (v21) When his servants told David these words, it pleased David well to be the king’s son-in-law. Before the deadline,
  • 1 Samuel 18:28 (v20) Saul saw and knew that Yahweh was with David; and Michal, Saul’s daughter, loved him.
  • 1 Samuel 19:11-12 (v21) Saul sent messengers to David’s house, to watch him, and to kill him in the morning. Michal, David’s wife, told him, saying, “If you don’t…
  • Jeremiah 9:8 (v21) Their tongue is a deadly arrow. It speaks deceit. One speaks peaceably to his neighbor with his mouth, but in his heart, he waits to ambush…
  • Judges 14:20 (v19) But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, who had been his friend.
  • 2 Samuel 13:28-29 (v22) Absalom commanded his servants, saying, “Mark now, when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine; and when I tell you, ‘Strike Amnon,’ then kill…
  • Psalms 7:14-16 (v21) Behold, he travails with iniquity. Yes, he has conceived mischief, and brought out falsehood. He has dug a hole, and has fallen into the…
  • Psalms 36:1-3 (v22) A revelation is within my heart about the disobedience of the wicked: “There is no fear of God before his eyes.” For he flatters himself in…
  • Psalms 38:12 (v21) They also who seek after my life lay snares. Those who seek my hurt speak mischievous things, and meditate deceits all day long.
  • Psalms 55:21 (v22) His mouth was smooth as butter, but his heart was war. His words were softer than oil, yet they were drawn swords.
  • Psalms 119:141 (v23) I am small and despised. I don’t forget your precepts.
  • Proverbs 14:20 (v23) The poor person is shunned even by his own neighbor, but the rich person has many friends.
  • Proverbs 15:33 (v18) The fear of Yahweh teaches wisdom. Before honor is humility.
  • Proverbs 18:12 (v18) Before destruction the heart of man is proud, but before honor is humility.
  • Proverbs 19:6-7 (v23) Many will entreat the favor of a ruler, and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts. All the relatives of the poor shun him: how much…
  • Proverbs 26:24-26 (v21) A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but he harbors evil in his heart. When his speech is charming, don’t believe him, for…
  • Proverbs 29:5 (v21) A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet.
  • Ecclesiastes 9:15-16 (v23) Now a poor wise man was found in it, and he by his wisdom delivered the city; yet no man remembered that same poor man. Then I said,…
  • Jeremiah 1:6 (v18) Then I said, “Ah, Lord Yahweh! Behold, I don’t know how to speak; for I am a child.”
  • Jeremiah 5:26 (v21) For wicked men are found among my people. They watch, as fowlers lie in wait. They set a trap. They catch men.
  • 1 John 3:1 (v23) See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God! For this cause the world doesn’t know us,…
  • Proverbs 29:12 (v22) If a ruler listens to lies, all of his officials are wicked.

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Geneva Bible translators 1599 · Public Domain On vv19, 21, 23 By whom he had five sons which David put…

By whom he had five sons which David put to death at the request of the Gibeonites, 2 Sam. 21:8.

Geneva Bible (1599) marginal notes — public domain.

John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv18–23 1Sa 18:18 And David said unto Saul, Who [am]…
Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On vv18–23 My life, i.e. my manner of living. How obscure…
John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv18–23 But it came to pass, at the time when…
John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain On vv18–19 What is my life - How little is my…
Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain On v21 Verse 21. That she may be a snare to…
Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain On vv18, 19, 20, 22 1Sa 18:18. David said, Who am I? and what…
Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain On vv18, 19, 20, 21, 23 What is my life - i. e., condition, or…
Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On vv18, 19, 20, 21, 23 Life. What exploits have I performed deserving such an…
Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On v20 Michal Saul's daughter loved David--This must have happened some…
Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On vv18–23 18. David said unto Saul — David’s words in…
The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On vv18–23 18. what is my life] Probably, who are my…
Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv18–23 (18) What is my life?—These words in David’s modest…
The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On vv19, 20, 22 Merab was given unto Adriel. A large dower was…
The Biblical Illustrator 1887 · Public Domain On vv18, 21 What is my life?
unfoldingWord translationNotes 2017 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv19, 20, 22, 23 when Merab, Saul's daughter, should have been given to…
Tyndale Open Study Notes 2022 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv18, 19, 22, 23 18:18 Who am I, and what is my family:…
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