Jacob said to him, “My lord knows that the children are tender, and that the flocks and herds with me have their young, and if they overdrive them one day, all the flocks will die.
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Jacob said to him, “My lord knows that the children are tender, and that the flocks and herds with me have their young, and if they overdrive them one day, all the flocks will die.
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And he said unto him, My lord knoweth that the children are tender, and the flocks and herds with young are with me: and if men should overdrive them one day, all the flock will die.
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And he said unto him: 'My lord knoweth that the children are tender, and that the flocks and herds giving suck are a care to me; and if they overdrive them one day, all the flocks will die.
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Passages linked to Genesis 33:13 in the Treasury of Scripture Knowledge, ordered by reader-vote popularity; verse text shown in World English Bible.
- Isaiah 40:11 He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will gather the lambs in his arm, and carry them in his bosom. He will gently lead those who have their young.
- Ezekiel 34:15-16 I myself will be the shepherd of my sheep, and I will cause them to lie down,” says the Lord Yahweh. “I will seek that which was lost, and will bring back that which was driven away, and will bind up that which was broken, and will strengthen that which was sick; but I will destroy the fat and the strong. I will feed them in justice.” ’
- 1 Chronicles 22:5 David said, “Solomon my son is young and tender, and the house that is to be built for Yahweh must be exceedingly magnificent, of fame and of glory throughout all countries. I will therefore make preparation for it.” So David prepared abundantly before his death.
- Proverbs 12:10 A righteous man respects the life of his animal, but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.
- Ezekiel 34:23-25 I will set up one shepherd over them, and he will feed them, even my servant David. He will feed them, and he will be their shepherd. I, Yahweh, will be their God, and my servant David prince among them. I, Yahweh, have spoken it. “ ‘I will make with them a covenant of peace, and will cause evil animals to cease out of the land. They will dwell securely in the wilderness, and sleep in the woods.
- John 21:15-17 So when they had eaten their breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” He said to him again a second time, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you have affection for me?” Peter was grieved because he asked him the third time, “Do you have affection for me?” He said to him, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I have affection for you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep.
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John Calvin 1540 · Public Domain 13. My lord knoweth. The things which Jacob alleges,…
13. My lord knoweth. The things which Jacob alleges, as grounds of excuse, are true; nevertheless he introduces them under false pretexts; except, perhaps, as regards the statement, that he was unwilling to be burdensome and troublesome to his brother. But since he afterwards turns his journey in another direction, it appears that he feigned something foreign to what was really in his mind. He says that he brings with him many encumbrances, and therefore requests his brother to precede him. “I will follow” (he says) “at the feet of the children;” that is, I will proceed gently as the pace of the children will bear; and thus I will follow at my leisure, until I come to thee in Mount Seir. In these words he promises what he was not intending to do; for, leaving his brother, he journeyed to a different place. But truth is so precious to God, that he will not allow us to lie or deceive, even when no injury follows. Wherefore, we must take care, when any fear of danger occupies our minds, that we do not turn aside to these subterfuges.
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain Gen 33:13 And he said unto him, My lord…
Gen 33:13 And he said unto him, My lord knoweth that the children [are] tender, and the flocks and herds with young [are] with me: and if men should overdrive them one day, all the flock will die.
Ver. 13. If men should over-drive.] A pattern of a good pastor, ever to have an eye to the weak ones; and so to regard all in his flock, as he overdrive not any. "Who hath despised the day of small things?" {Zec 4:10} Weak ones are to be received, "but not to doubtful disputations." {Rom 14:1} Novices are not to be put upon the austerities of religion. {Mat 9:15} Christ preached "as they were able to hear." {Mar 4:33} Peter was specially charged to look to the "lambs." {Joh 21:15} Christ "bears them in his bosom, and gently leads those that are with young." {Isa 40:11}
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain The children are tender; the eldest of them, Reuben,…
The children are tender; the eldest of them, Reuben, not being yet fourteen years old.
The flocks and herds with young are with me; or, upon me, i.e. committed to my care, to be managed as their necessities require. See Isa 40:11.
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John Gill 1763 · Public Domain And he said unto him, my lord knoweth the…
And he said unto him, my lord knoweth the children are tender,.... The eldest being but thirteen years of age, and the youngest about six; and Esau might easily perceive by their stature that they were young and tender, and not able to bear either riding or walking very fast:
and the flocks and herds with young are with me; or "upon me" (r); the charge of them was upon him, it was incumbent on him to take care of them, and especially in the circumstances in which they were, being big with young, both sheep and kine; or "suckling", giving milk to their young, as the Targums of Onkelos and Jonathan, and so having lambs and calves, some of them perhaps just yeaned and calved, they required more attendance and greater care in driving them, not being able to travel far in a day:
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and if men should overdrive them one day, all the flock will die; if he, and the servants under him, should push them on too fast, beyond their strength, even but one day, all in the above circumstances would be in danger of being lost through overmuch fatigue and weariness.
(r) "super me", Montanus, Vatablus, "incumbere mihi", Junius & Tremellius, so Aben Ezra.
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Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain Young, boves fœtus, giving milk, having calved lately, Seputagint.…
Young, boves fœtus, giving milk, having calved lately, Seputagint. (Bochart.) (Calmet)
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain 13. tender] i.e. young and unequal to the fatigues…
13. tender] i.e. young and unequal to the fatigues of travel.
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Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain (13) Flocks and herds with young.—Heb., that give such.…
(13) Flocks and herds with young.—Heb., that give such. Thompson (Land and Book, p. 205) infers from this that it was now winter, and thinks that this is confirmed by Jacob making folds for his cattle at Succoth. If so, more than six months would have elapsed since Jacob’s flight from Haran; but the conclusion is uncertain, and Jacob probably halted at Succoth because of his lameness.
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain And he (Jacob, politely declining Esau"s society and protection,…
And he (Jacob, politely declining Esau"s society and protection, though apparently accepting his invitation to go to Mount Seir) said unto him, My lord knoweth that the children are tender (Joseph at this time being little over six years of age), and the flocks and herds with young (literally, giving milk; twOl, from lW, to give suck) are with me, literally, upon me, i.e. are an object of my special care, because of their condition (Rosenm Keil)and if men should overdrive them literally, and they (sc. the shepherds) will over-drive them, i.e. in order to keep pace with Esau"s armed followers they must do so, and in that case, if they were to do so for onlyone day, all the flock (literally, and all the flock) will die. Thomson says that Oriental shepherds gently lead along the mothers when in the condition spoken of by Jacob, knowing well that even one day"s over-driving would be fatal to them, and, from the fact that Jacob"s ewes were giving milk, infers that it was winter time, since then alone the flocks are in that condition an inference which he further confirms by observing that at Succoth Jacob constructed booths for their protection ("Land and Book," p. 205).
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The Biblical Illustrator 1887 · Public Domain The children are tender
Gen_33:13
The children are tender
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Gently! gently!
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LET US VIEW JACOB AS AN EXAMPLE TO US. Tender consideration for the young and feeble.
1. How we may overdrive.
(1) Puzzling them with deep and controversial points of doctrine, and condemning them because they are not quite correct in their opinions Rom_14:1).
(2) Setting up a standard of experience, and frowning at them because they have not felt all the sorrows or ecstasies which we have known.
(3) Requiring a high degree of faith, courage, patience, and other graces which in their case can only be tender buds.
(4) Fault-finding and never commending.
2. Why we should not overdrive the lambs.
(1) Common humanity forbids.
(2) Our own experience when we were young should teach us better.
(3) We may again become weak, and need great forbearance.
(4) We love them too well to be hard with them.
(5) Jesus thinks so much of them that we cannot worry them.
(6) The Holy Spirit dwells in them, and we must be gentle towards the faintest beginning of His work.
(7) We should be doing Satans work if we did overburden them.
(8) We should thus prove ourselves to have little wisdom and less grace. If we kill the lambs now, where shall we get our sheep from next year?
(9) We dare not bear the responsibility of offending these little ones, for terrible woes are pronounced on those who do them wrong.
(10) We remember how tender Jesus is: and this brings us to our second point.
II. LET US VIEW JACOB AS A PICTURE OF OUR LORD JESUS. See His portrait Isa_40:11.
1. The weak have a special place in His love.
2. He will not have it that any of them should die.
3. Therefore He never overdrives one of them.
4. But He suits His pace to their feebleness, I will lead on softly Gen_33:15).
I have many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now. Has He not thus been very tender to us? Thy gentleness hath made me great Psa_18:35). Let us not fret and worry as though He were an exactor. We are not driven by Jehu, but led by Jesus. Let us rest in His love. At the same time let us not be slower than need be. Towards others let us be tenderness itself, for we are to love our neighbour as ourselves. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
Jacobs precaution
The angels of peace and of love seem to hover over the charm of the preceding scene; and the heart lingers with delight in contemplating the noble emulation of generosity and confidence. But is not this harmony too soon disturbed? Does not again a spirit of suspicion and reserve overshadow the mind of Jacob? Is he incapable of rising to the natural purity of his disinterested brother? Or does his keen intellect teach him how imprudent it would be unguardedly to rely upon the fallacious calmness of a passionate mind? Admitted even, that Jacobs apprehensions were, in this respect, exaggerated, his precaution was the result of a deep insight into Esaus character; the most insignificant circumstance might recall to his memory the events of the past; his rage might be re-kindled; and, though perhaps later bewailing his rashness, he might, by his superiority, be misled to deeds of cruel revenge. When, therefore, Esau wished to accompany Jacob, for protection, through the regions with which his excursions had made him familiar, the latter cautiously declined the offer; he refused even the garrison or guard which Esau proposed to leave him; but he promised, of his own accord, to visit him in his home in Seir; for he knew, that the sacred rights of hospitality would there protect him, even against an outbreak of passion. But though the objections of Jacob may have been as many evasions, they were not untruths; he could certainly not, without great danger, follow with his encumbered caravan, the march of Esau; and the latter seemed to acknowledge the justness of the remark; but he opposed the second offer with the simple question: Wherefore do I thus find grace in the sight of my lord? He invented no fictitious pretext; he thus almost exposed himself to the danger of arousing his brothers suspicion; but he had banished deceit from his heart; and he preferred risk to falsehood. (M. M. Kalisch, Ph. D.)
Sympathy for the feeble
The Lord chooses under-shepherds for His flock among men subject to weakness and infirmity, that they may have a fellow-feeling for the feeble. Selah Merrill, in his East of the Jordan, describes the movement of an Arab tribe, and says, The flocks of sheep and goats were mostly driven by small children. Sometimes there were flocks of lambs and kids driven by children not much older relatively than the lambs and kids themselves. Some of the men had in their arms two, three, four, or a whole armful of kids and lambs that were too young to walk; and among some cooking utensils there was a large saucepan, and in it was a pair of small kids that were too young for the journey. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
Gentle dealing for the feeble
When a candle is newly lighted and needs to be moved, it must be carried at a slow pace or it will be extinguished. A fire which is almost expiring may be revived by a gentle breath, but it will be blown out if the bellows are plied at their full force. You can drown a little plant by watering it too much, and destroy a lovely flower by exposing it to too much sun. (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Gentleness and strength go together
Nothing is so strong as gentleness; nothing so gentle as real strength. (Francis de Sales.)
Tenderness of manner
Even in our manner there should be tenderness. A truly kind act may be so performed as to cause as much grief as joy. We have heard of one who would throw a penny at a beggar and thus hurt him while relieving him. A heart full of love has a mode of its own by which its gifts are enhanced in value. There is enough misery in the world without our carelessly adding to it. Some persons are morbidly sensitive, and this is wrong on their part; but when we are aware of their failing we must be the more careful lest we cause them needless pain. A gouty man will cry out if we walk with heavy footstep across the room. Do we censure him for this? No, we pity him, and tread softly. Let us do the same for the sensitive. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
The weakest first
At the Stockwell Orphanage the usual rule of walking is--little boys first. In this way the younger children cannot be overdriven or left behind, and moreover all the boys can see before them, whereas by the usual practice of putting the tall fellows first the view in front is shut out from all but the few who lead the way. Let the Church have great care for the weaker brethren, and shape her action with a constant reference to them. A strong Christian might do a thousand things lawfully if he only thought of himself, but he will not do one of them because he wishes to act expediently, and would not grieve his brother, or cause him to stumble.
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C. I. Scofield 1917 · Public Domain My lord
My lord
Not all at once does "Jacob" cease to dominate the walk of "Israel." Cf. Gen 35:1-10 where the walk becomes according to the new name.
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