As her soul was departing (for she died), she named him Benoni, but his father named him Benjamin. Rachel died, and was buried on the way to Ephrath (also called Bethlehem). Jacob set up a pillar on her grave. The same is the Pillar of Rachel’s grave to this day.
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As her soul was departing (for she died), she named him Benoni, but his father named him Benjamin. Rachel died, and was buried on the way to Ephrath (also called Bethlehem). Jacob set up a pillar on her grave. The same is the Pillar of Rachel’s grave to this day. Israel traveled, and spread his tent beyond the tower of Eder. While Israel lived in that land, Reuben went and lay with Bilhah, his father’s concubine, and Israel heard of it. Now the sons of Jacob were twelve.
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As her soul was departing (for she died), she named him Benoni, but his father named him Benjamin.
Rachel died, and was buried on the way to Ephrath (also called Bethlehem).
Jacob set up a pillar on her grave. The same is the Pillar of Rachel’s grave to this day.
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And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing, (for she died) that she called his name Ben-oni: but his father called him Benjamin.
And Rachel died, and was buried in the way to Ephrath, which is Beth-lehem.
And Jacob set a pillar upon her grave: that is the pillar of Rachel’s grave unto this day.
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And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing — for she died — that she called his name Ben-oni; but his father called him Benjamin.
And Rachel died, and was buried in the way to Ephrath — the same is Beth-lehem.
And Jacob set up a pillar upon her grave; the same is the pillar of Rachel's grave unto this day.
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- Micah 5:2 (v19) But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, being small among the clans of Judah, out of you one will come out to me that is to be ruler in Israel; whose…
- 1 Samuel 10:2 (v20) When you have departed from me today, then you will find two men by Rachel’s tomb, on the border of Benjamin at Zelzah. They will tell you,…
- Genesis 48:7 (v19) As for me, when I came from Paddan, Rachel died beside me in the land of Canaan on the way, when there was still some distance to come to…
- Ruth 1:2 (v19) The name of the man was Elimelech, and the name of his wife Naomi. The names of his two sons were Mahlon and Chilion, Ephrathites of…
- Ruth 4:11 (v19) All the people who were in the gate, and the elders, said, “We are witnesses. May Yahweh make the woman who has come into your house like…
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- Matthew 2:6 (v19) ‘You Bethlehem, land of Judah, are in no way least among the princes of Judah: for out of you shall come a governor, who shall shepherd my…
- Genesis 35:14 (v20) Jacob set up a pillar in the place where he spoke with him, a pillar of stone. He poured out a drink offering on it, and poured oil on it.
- 2 Samuel 18:17-18 (v20) They took Absalom and cast him into a great pit in the forest, and raised over him a very great heap of stones. Then all Israel fled, each…
- Matthew 2:1 (v19) Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of King Herod, behold, wise men from the east came to Jerusalem, saying,
- Genesis 35:9 (v20) God appeared to Jacob again, when he came from Paddan Aram, and blessed him.
- Joshua 19:15 (v19) Kattath, Nahalal, Shimron, Idalah, and Bethlehem: twelve cities with their villages.
- 1 Samuel 4:20-21 (v18) About the time of her death the women who stood by her said to her, “Don’t be afraid, for you have given birth to a son.” But she didn’t…
- 1 Chronicles 4:9 (v18) Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother named him Jabez, saying, “Because I bore him with sorrow.”
- Micah 6:2 (v19) Hear, you mountains, Yahweh’s controversy, and you enduring foundations of the earth; for Yahweh has a controversy with his people, and he…
- Matthew 2:16-18 (v19) Then Herod, when he saw that he was mocked by the wise men, was exceedingly angry, and sent out, and killed all the male children who were…
- Luke 12:20 (v18) “But God said to him, ‘You foolish one, tonight your soul is required of you. The things which you have prepared—whose will they be?’
- Luke 23:46 (v18) Jesus, crying with a loud voice, said, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!” Having said this, he breathed his last.
- Acts 7:59 (v18) They stoned Stephen as he called out, saying, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit!”
- Genesis 30:1 (v18) When Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister. She said to Jacob, “Give me children, or else I will die.”
- Genesis 42:4 (v18) But Jacob didn’t send Benjamin, Joseph’s brother, with his brothers; for he said, “Lest perhaps harm happen to him.”
- Genesis 42:38 (v18) He said, “My son shall not go down with you; for his brother is dead, and he only is left. If harm happens to him along the way in which…
- Genesis 43:14 (v18) May God Almighty give you mercy before the man, that he may release to you your other brother and Benjamin. If I am bereaved of my…
- Genesis 44:27-31 (v18) Your servant, my father, said to us, ‘You know that my wife bore me two sons. One went out from me, and I said, “Surely he is torn in…
- Exodus 12:7 (v18) They shall take some of the blood, and put it on the two door posts and on the lintel, on the houses in which they shall eat it.
- Psalms 16:10 (v18) For you will not leave my soul in Sheol, neither will you allow your holy one to see corruption.
- Psalms 80:17 (v18) Let your hand be on the man of your right hand, on the son of man whom you made strong for yourself.
- Lamentations 2:12 (v18) They ask their mothers, “Where is grain and wine?” when they swoon as the wounded in the streets of the city, when their soul is poured out…
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Geneva Bible translators 1599 · Public Domain On v20 The ancient fathers used this ceremony to testify their…
The ancient fathers used this ceremony to testify their hope of the resurrection to come, which was not generally revealed.
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv18–20 Gen 35:18 And it came to pass, as her…
Gen 35:18 And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing, (for she died) that she called his name Benoni: but his father called him Benjamin.
Ver. 19. And Rachel died.] We forfeit many favours, by over loving them. Our jealous God will not endure us to idolise any creature. Let them that have wives, or any other thing they hold most dear to themselves, be as if they had none. So love, as to think of loss. {a} Let all outward things hang loose, as an upper garment that we can throw off at pleasure. {1Co 7:29}
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{a} Iudaei vitrum ex quo sponsus et sponsa biberunt, confringunt; ut memores sint sponsi fragilitatis humanae.
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On vv18–20 In departing; or, in going out; namely, out of…
In departing; or, in going out; namely, out of the body, as Psa 146:4, which is an argument of the soul’s immortality, especially if compared with Ecc 12:7. From which places, laid together, we learn the two terms of the journey, whence it goes, and whither it goes.
Benjamin; either as near and dear and precious to him as his right hand, which is both more useful and more honourable than the left; see Psa 80:17; or instead of his right hand, the staff, stay, and comfort of his old age.
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John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv18–20 And Rachel died, and was buried in the way…
And Rachel died, and was buried in the way to Ephrath, which is Bethlehem. Hence called Bethlehem Ephratah, Mic 5:2; with great pertinency is Rachel represented as if risen from her grave, and weeping for her children, when the children of Bethlehem, and thereabout, were slain by Herod, she being buried so near that place, Mat 2:16; at what age she died is not said. Polyhistor, out of Demetrius (d), reports, that she died after Jacob had lived with her twenty three years.
(d) Apnd Euseb. Praepar. Evangel. l. 9. c. 21. p. 424.
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John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain On vv18, 20 Her dying lips calls her new-born soon Benoni, the…
Her dying lips calls her new-born soon Benoni, the son of my sorrow. But Jacob because he would not renew the sorrowful remembrance of his mother's death every time he called his son by name, changed his name, and called him Benjamin, the son of my right hand - That is, very dear to me; set on my right hand for a right hand blessing; the support of my age, like the staff in my right hand. Jacob buried her near the place where she died. If the soul be at rest after death, the matter is not great where the body lies. In the place where the tree falls, there let it lie. The Jewish writers say, The death of Deborah and Rachel was to expiate the murder of the Shechemites, occasioned by Dinah, a daughter of the family.
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Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain On vv18, 20 Verse 18. As her soul was in departing] Is…
Verse 18. As her soul was in departing] Is not this a proof that there is an immortal spirit in man, which can exist separate from and independent of the body? Of Rachel's death it is said, בצאת נפשה betseth naphshah, in the going away of her soul; her body did not go away, therefore her soul and body must have been distinct. If her breath only had been in tended, נשמה neshamah or רוח ruach would have rather been used, as the first means breath, the latter breath or spirit indifferently.
She called his name Ben-oni] בן אני the Son of my sorrow or affliction, because of the hard labour she had in bringing him into the world; but his father called him Benjamin, בנימין the son of my right hand, i.e., the son peculiarly dear to me. So man of the right hand, Ps 80:17, signifies one much loved and regarded of God. The Samaritan has Benyamin, the son of days; i.e., the son of his old age, as Judah calls him, Ge 44:20; and Houbigant contends that this is the true reading, and that the Chaldee termination in for im is a corruption. If it be a corruption, it is as old as the days of St. Jerome, who translated the place Benjamin, id est, filius dextrae; Benjamin, that is, the son of the right hand.
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Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain On vv18–20 Gen 35:18. As her soul was departing — בצאת…
Gen 35:18. As her soul was departing — בצאת נפשׁה, when her soul was going out, namely, of the body: an argument this of the soul’s immortality, especially if compared with Ecc 12:7; from which places collated, we learn both whence it goes, and whither it goes. She called his name Benoni — The son of my sorrow. Thus, by her own confession, the gaining her desire became her sorrow: a lively instance this of the folly of inordinately desiring any thing temporal: the object obtained generally becomes a source of sorrow to us. But his father called him Benjamin — The son of my right hand. As near, dear, and precious to him as his right hand, which is both more useful and more honourable than the left, Psa 80:17; or, instead of his right hand, the staff, stay, and comfort of his old age. Jacob seems to have given him this name rather than the other, because he would not renew the sorrowful remembrance of his mother’s death every time he called his son by name. It may be observed, that both names were remarkably verified in his posterity; the tribe of Benjamin being remarkably brave and active, and yet involved in more sorrowful disasters than were experienced by any of the other tribes.
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Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On vv18, 20 That is. These etymologies are given by St. Jerome.…
That is. These etymologies are given by St. Jerome. (Du Hamel) --- Right hand, (jemini) as he is often styled in Scripture. Jamin has the same meaning; though it may also signify of the south, with respect to Bethel and Sichem; or of days and old age, chap. xliv. 20. 1. (Calmet) Jacob chooses to give his son a more auspicious name; as the other would have reminded him too sensibly of his loss. (Haydock)
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Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On vv18–20 She called his name Ben-oni--The dying mother gave this…
She called his name Ben-oni--The dying mother gave this name to her child, significant of her circumstances; but Jacob changed his name into Benjamin. This is thought by some to have been originally Benjamin, "a son of days," that is, of old age. But with its present ending it means "son of the right hand," that is, particularly dear and precious.
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Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On vv18, 20 18. Her soul was in departing — Hebrews, in…
18. Her soul was in departing — Hebrews, in the going out of her soul; an intimation of immortality. The soul is thought of as a conscious entity, passing out into some other state and mode of life.
Benoni… Benjamin — The former name means son of my sorrow; the latter, son of a right hand. To his mother he is a child of woe; to his father, a child of hope.
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On vv18–19 18. her soul] The nephesh, or “soul,” the vital…
18. her soul] The nephesh, or “soul,” the vital principle: cf. 1Ki_17:21, “let this child’s soul come unto him again.”
Ben-oni] i.e. the son of my sorrow. Rachel, as she dies, names her son; but the father cannot acquiesce in a name of such sad memories.
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Benjamin] i.e. the son of the right hand. Jacob refuses to give his child an ill-omened name. The right hand was regarded as the auspicious side. Cf. Gen_48:13; Gen_48:17-19; 1Ki_2:19; Psa_45:9; Psa_89:13. The tribe of Benjamin occupied the southernmost territory of the sons of Rachel, viz. on the right of Ephraim, facing eastwards. According to Sayce (E.H.H., p. 79) this is the explanation of the name, which then might be rendered “southerner”; and the present story would imply the formation of the tribe after the occupation of Canaan.
The words of Rachel, as she dies, should be compared with the allusion in Jer_31:15. The condensed account in this passage makes no reference to the grief of Jacob; but this is expressed in Gen_48:7 by a pathetic sentence.
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Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv18, 20 (18) Ben-oni . . . Benjamin.—Rachel, in her dying…
(18) Ben-oni . . . Benjamin.—Rachel, in her dying moments, names her child the son of my sorrow; for though on has a double meaning, and is translated strength in Gen_49:3, yet, doubtless, her feeling was that the life of her offspring was purchased by her own pain and death. Jacob’s name, “son of the right hand,” was probably given not merely that the child might-bear no ill-omened title, but to mark his sense of the value and preciousness of his last born son. Abravanel well remarks that earthly happiness is never perfect, and that the receiving of Divine revelations made no difference to Jacob’s earthly lot. God had just solemnly appeared to him, and he is on his last journey, within two days’ easy march of Hebron, when he loses the wife whom he so loved. For more than forty years he had been an exile from his home; he was now close to it, but may never welcome there the one for whom he had so deep and lasting an affection.
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On vv18–20 And it came to pass, as her soul was…
And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing, literally, in the departing of her soul; not into annihilation, but into another (a disembodied) state of existence (vide Gen_25:3) for she died, (a pathetic commentary on Gen_30:1) that she called his name Benoni ("son of my sorrow," as a memorial of her anguish in bearing him, and of her death because of him): but his father called him Benjamin of my right hand;" either "the son of my strength" (Clericus, Rosenm Murphy), or "the son of my happiness or good fortune" (Gesenius, Keil, Kalisch), with allusion to Jacob"s now possessing twelve sons; or as expressive of Jacob"s unwillingness to see a bad omen in the birth of Rachel"s child (Candlish); or "the son of my days," i.e. of my old age (Samaritan), an interpretation which Lunge pasaes with a mere allusion, but which Kalisch justly pronounces not so absurd as is often asserted; (cf. Gen_44:20) or "the son of my affection" (Ainsworth; Gen_50:18)
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The Biblical Illustrator 1887 · Public Domain On v18 The marks of a Ben-oni
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The marks of a Ben-oni
These words were spoken of Rachel, Jacobs wife.
Her youngest child had just been born: she was very sick, and was going to die. The little child was lying by her. She called to see it; she kissed it, and called his name Ben-oni. Ben-oni means, the son of my sorrow. This child was about to occasion the death of his mother, and therefore she gave him this name. She was sorry to leave her husband, her family, and her friends; and this feeling of sorrow led her to call his name Ben-oni. But his father called him Benjamin. Benjamin means, the son of a right hand. Our right hand is a great comfort and blessing to us. What could we do without a right hand? Now, every child that is born into this world will be either a Ben-oni or a Benjamin. There is not much difference between these two names, but there is a great deal of difference between the natures which they represent. Now, the great question for us to consider is, What are the marks of a Ben-oni or of a Benjamin? We shall mention four things which may always be considered as the marks of a Ben-oni; and the opposite of these, of course, will be the marks of a Benjamin.
I. The first mark of a Ben-oui--a child of sorrow--is ILL-TEMPER. Suppose you had to walk four or five miles with a pebble in your shoe; or suppose you had to wear a coat or dress with a pin sticking in it; or suppose you had to lie all night in bed with a porcupine by your side, sticking you with his sharp-pointed quills--what an uncomfortable thing it would be! But none of these things are so uncomfortable as to be connected with an ill-temper. All peevish, cross, ill-natured children are Ben-onies--children of sorrow to their parents and the families where they dwell. There was a rich nobleman in England who had a little daughter named Anne. They were very fond of her; for she was a fine little creature, very lively, and merry, and affectionate, and exceedingly beautiful. But she had a very ill temper. When anything vexed her she would fly into a rage, and turn and strike any one that provoked her. After every fit of anger she would be ashamed and sorry, and resolve never to do so again. But the next time she was provoked it was all forgotten, and she was as angry as ever. When she was between four and five years of age, her mother had a little son, a sweet little tender baby. Annes nurse, who was thoughtless and wicked, loved to tease her, because she was so easily irritated, and so she told her that her father and mother would not care for her now, because all their love and pleasure would be in this little brother, and they would not mind her. Poor Anne burst into a flood of tears, and cried bitterly, saying, You are a naughty woman to say so! Mamma will always love me; I know she will, and Ill go this very moment and ask her. And she ran out of the nursery and hastened to her mothers room. The servant called after her: Come, miss, you neednt go to your mothers room; she wont see you now. Anne burst open the door, but was instantly caught hold of by a strange woman she had never seen before. My dear, said this woman, you cannot see your mother just now; and she was going on to tell that it was because she was very sick, and could not be disturbed. But she was too angry to listen; and she screamed and kicked at the woman, who was obliged to take her by force and carry her back to the nursery. When she put her down she gave the servant a charge not to let her go to her mothers room. This added to her rage. But the thoughtless, wicked servant, instead of trying to soothe and quiet her, burst out into a laugh, and said, I told you that, miss. You see your mamma does not love you now. Then the poor child became mad with fury. She seized a smoothing-iron, and, darting forward, threw it upon the babys head as it lay in the cradle. The child gave one struggle, and breathed no more. Annes mother died that night of grief, Anne grew up in the possession of great riches. She had every outward comfort about her that money could procure; but she was a very unhappy and miserable woman. She was never known to smile. The thought of the terrible consequences of that one outburst of passion pressed upon her like a heavy burden all her days. Ah! what a Ben-oni this girl became! She was a child of sorrow to her parents. Her ill-temper made her so. If you give way to such tempers, my dear young friends, you will certainly be Ben-onies; but if you strive and pray against such feelings, and try to be gentle, kind, and pleasant to those around you, then you will be Benjamins--children of the right hand to your parenta. See, now, how differently such children will act. A gentleman was walking on the Battery, in the city of New York, one day, and, as he passed a little girl who was cheerfully rolling her hoop, he said to her, You are a nice little girl; to which she replied, patting her little brother on the head, And Bobble is a nice little brother too. Here was a good-temper, which would make this dear child a child of the right hand to her parents, and cause her to be loved by all who were about her.
II. The second mark of a Ben-oni is IDLENESS. Idle children love to lie in bed in the morning; they love to do nothing all day, if they can help it, but play. It is a great trouble to get them to study, to read, or to work. Now, idle children always make idle men; for the habits which children form while they are children will surely remain with them when they grow up to be men and women. Now, we are to remember, dear children, that God is busy at all times, and almost everything that God has made is busy. Look at the sun; it is always at work, shining and shining and shining from one Fears end to the other. In the daytime it is shining in our part of the world, and when it is night to us it is shining in the opposite part of the world. And so it is with the moon--always shining in one part of the world or the other. So it is with the sea; its waves are rising, and falling, and rolling, and flowing continually. So it is with the rivers; they are continually running, from the fountains where they spring, on, on to the ocean. And so it is with the little birds, and little fishes, and the bees, and the ants--none of these are idle. A gentleman in England had an estate which was worth over two hundred pounds a year. For a while he kept his farm in his own hands, but at length found himself so much in debt that he was obliged to sell one-half of his place to pay up. The rest he let out to a farmer for several years. Towards the end of that time, the farmer, on coming to pay his rent, asked him whether he would sell his farm. The gentleman was surprised that the farmer should be able to make him an offer for his place. Pray, tell me, said he, how it happens that, while I could not live upon twice as much land, for which I paid no rent, you are regularly paying me about one hundred pounds a year for the farm, and able in a few years to purchase it? The reason is plain, answered the farmer; it lies in the difference between go and come. I do not understand you, said the gentleman. I mean, said the farmer, that you sat still and said, Go; I get up and say Come. You lie in bed, and enjoy your ease; I rise early in the morning, and attend to my business. In other words, this was an industrious man; there was no love of idleness about him, and this led to his success in life.
III. The third mark of a Ben-oni is PRIDE. Some children are proud of their clothes. This is very silly indeed; for the butterflies have much more beautiful clothes than we, and yet they are never proud of their dress. Some children are proud of their families. This also is very silly, for we have all sprung at first from one father. Some children are proud about their houses. This, too, is very silly, for, by-and-by, they will all crumble into the dust, from which they have been taken, while the grave is the one house to which we must all come at last. Proud children feel and think themselves better than others, and are often unwilling to engage in honest and honourable employments. Listen to what I am going to tell you. Chief-Justice Marshall was a great man; but great men are never proud. He was not too proud to wait upon himself. He was in the habit of going to market himself, and carrying home his purchases. Often he would be seen returning at sunrise with poultry in one hand and vegetables in the other. On one of these occasions a fashionable young man from the North, who had removed to Richmond, was swearing violently because he could find no one to carry home his turkey. Judge Marshall stepped up and asked him where he lived. When he heard, he said, That is in my way, and I will take your turkey home for you. When they came to the house the young man inquired, What shall I pay you? Oh, nothing, said the Judge; you are welcome; it was all in the way, and it was no trouble to me. Who is that polite old gentleman who brought home my turkey for me? asked the young man of a by-stander. Oh, said he, that was Judge Marshall, Chief-Justice of the United States. Why did he bring home my turkey? He did it, said the by-stander, to give you a rebuke, and teach you to attend to your own business. True greatness never feels above doing anything that is useful; but especially the truly great man will never feel above helping himself; his own independence of character depends upon his being able to help himself. The great Dr. Franklin, when he first established himself in business in Philadelphia, wheeled home the paper which he purchased for his printing-office upon a wheelbarrow with his own hands.
IV. The fourth and only other mark that we shall speak of is DISOBEDIENCE. There is nothing on which the comfort and happiness of parents and families depend more than on the obedience of children. My dear children, if you want to plant thorns on the pillows of you parents, and plunge daggers into their bosoms, be disobedient. If you want to make them as uncomfortable as they possibly can be in this world, then be disobedient. This is the chief mark of a Ben-oni. I remember reading not long ago of a gentleman in England who had two sons. He was a kind, excellent, pious man, and did everything for the comfort of his children that he thought it right to do. But sometimes the boys were anxious to do things which their parents were not willing that they should do. One Sunday, the eldest boy went to his father and asked permission to take the carriage and go riding in the afternoon, instead of going to church. His father told him he could not, because it would be breaking the Sabbath. The boy was very much displeased because his father would not let him go riding, as some of the boys in the neighbourhood had been allowed by their parents to do. He was so wicked about this that he determined no longer to stay at home, because his father would not let him do just what he wanted. So the next day he persuaded his brother to go with him, and they went down to Portsmouth, a town by the seaside, intending to go to sea. Before going, however, they called on the Rev. Mr. Griffin, to assist them to get a situation on board a man-of-war. This good man, perceiving that they were not accustomed to the mode of life in which they were about to enter, inquired of them their object in going to sea. The eldest boy frankly told him they were going in order to spite their parents! Then he told him the story of what had taken place at home--of his fathers unwillingness to allow him to ride on Sunday--and said he was going to sea in order to make his father feel sorry for refusing to gratify him. The good clergyman tried to show them the guilt and folly of the course they were about to pursue, and to set before them the unavoidable consequences that would result from it. The younger son was impressed by the counsels and advice of the clergyman, and went home; but the elder son resolved to go on in his evil course. Some twelve or fifteen years after this had taken place, this same clergyman was called to the prison in the town of Portsmouth to see a sailor who was condemned to be executed, and who was going to be hung in a few days. When he entered the cell of the prison he saw a wretched, miserable, squalid-looking creature sitting by a table in the cell, who looked up to him as he entered, and said, Do you not remember me, sir? No, said the clergyman; I do not recollect that I ever saw you before. Then the poor man recalled to him the story of the boy who went from home in order to spite his parents. And are you the miserable man, said the clergyman, who did this? Yes, said the poor culprit; I followed out my own plan; I went on the course which I had chosen, contrary to your advice and to my own convictions; I plunged into all sorts of wickedness and sin, and finally became involved in a robbery and murder, for which I am now about to suffer the penalty. And all this in consequence of my disobedience to my parents! The clergyman wrote to the father of this unhappy man, who came to visit his son in his last hours, and who had the unspeakable anguish of standing by and seeing him suffer the penalty of the law, and reap the bitter fruits of his disobedience. What a Ben-oni that son was to his father! Let us look, now, at one or two examples of an opposite character. William Hale was an obedient son. He was spending some time with his mother at the Saratoga Springs, and had become acquainted with a number of boys of his own age there. One day some half-dozen of the children were playing on the piazza, and one of them was heard exclaiming--Oh, yes, thats capital! So we will; come on, now! Wheres William Hale? Come on, Will! We are going to have a ride on the circular railroad. Come with us. Yes, if my mother is willing, said William. I will run and ask her. Ah, ah! so you must run and ask your ma!--great baby-boy!--run along to your ma! Aint you ashamed? I dont ask my mother, said one. Neither do I, said another. Neither do I, said a third. Be a man, Will, and come along, said the first boy, if you dont wish to be called a coward as long as you live; dont you see we are all waiting? William was standing with one foot advanced, and his hand firmly clenched, in the midst of the group. His brow was flushed, his eye was flashing, his lip was compressed, his cheek was changing--all showing how the epithet coward rankled in his bosom. It was doubtful for a moment whether he would have the true bravery to be called a coward rather than to do wrong; but, with a voice trembling with emotion, he replied:--I will not go without I ask my mother; and I am no coward, either. I promised her I would not go from the house without her permission; and I should be a base coward if I were to tell my mother a lie. When Wiliam returned to his mother to ask her permission to go, and told her of what had taken place, she threw her arms around his neck, and exclaimed: God bless you, my dear child, and give you grace always to act in this way. Ah, my dear children, he was a Benjamin--a child of comfort--to his dear mother; and doubtless he grew up to be her support and comfort all her days. After the surrender of Cornwallis, and the victory achieved by the American arms, George Washington, when the war was over, returned in triumph to his mothers home. Everybody was homouring him and praising him as the saviour of his country and the greatest man of the age. When he reached the place of his mothers abode a large concourse of the people had met to greet him and welcome him to his home. In the centre of the assembled crowd stood his mother, and, pushing his way through the crowd around him, he hastened to pay her his respects; and, as she threw her arms around his neck and kissed him, she said to some who were congratulating her upon having so noble a son: George always was an obedient child. He was indeed a Benjamin--a son of comfort--to his mother, and a blessing to the country and to the world; and the spirit of obedience early learned and early practised was that which went to make him what he was. And now, in conclusion, my dear children, let me ask you, Which of these two do you desire to be? Will you be Ben-onies--children of sorrow and grief--to your parents? or will you be Benjamins--children of joy and comfort and blessing--to them? If you would be the latter--Benjamins indeed--then you must watch and strive and pray against all the evils of which we have been speaking. Watch against these four marks of a Ben-oni; watch against ill-temper, watch against idleness, watch against pride, watch against disobedience; and pray God to enable you each to overcome all these evils--to erase these marks of a Ben-oni as they are beginning to fasten themselves on your character, and to earn for yourself the character of a Benjamin indeed. (H. Newton, D. D.)
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C. I. Scofield 1917 · Public Domain On v18 i.e. son of my right hand. Benjamin, "son of…
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i.e. son of my right hand. Benjamin, "son of sorrow" to his mother, but "son of my right hand" to his father, becomes thus a double type of Christ. As Ben-oni He was the suffering One because of whom a sword pierced His mother’s heart Luk 2:35 as Benjamin, head of the warrior tribe Gen 49:27 firmly joined to Judah the kingly tribe; Gen 49:8-12; 1Ki 12:21 he becomes a type of the victorious One. It is noteworthy that Benjamin was especially honoured among the Gentiles Gen 45:22.
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So manifold are the distinctions of Christ that many personal types of Him are needed. Joseph is not complete, Benjamin standing only for Christ the sorrowful One Isa 53:3; Isa 53:4 yet have power on earth. (Cf) (See Scofield "Gen 43:34").
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35:18 Rachel found the name son of my sorrow appropriate to the situation, but Jacob did not want such a sad name for his son, so he changed it to son of my right hand. Jacob thus turned the day of sorrow into a day of hope that gave his son the prospect of success.
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