But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, who had been his friend.
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But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, who had been his friend.
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But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, whom he had used as his friend.
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But Samson's wife was given to his companion, whom he had had for his friend.
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Passages linked to Judges 14:20 in the Treasury of Scripture Knowledge, ordered by reader-vote popularity; verse text shown in World English Bible.
- Judges 15:2 Her father said, “I most certainly thought that you utterly hated her; therefore I gave her to your companion. Isn’t her younger sister more beautiful than she? Please, take her instead.”
- John 3:29 He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom’s voice. This, my joy, therefore is made full.
- John 13:18 I don’t speak concerning all of you. I know whom I have chosen. But that the Scripture may be fulfilled, ‘He who eats bread with me has lifted up his heel against me.’
- Judges 15:6 Then the Philistines said, “Who has done this?” They said, “Samson, the son-in-law of the Timnite, because he has taken his wife and given her to his companion.” The Philistines came up, and burned her and her father with fire.
- Psalms 55:12-13 For it was not an enemy who insulted me, then I could have endured it. Neither was it he who hated me who raised himself up against me, then I would have hidden myself from him. But it was you, a man like me, my companion, and my familiar friend.
- Jeremiah 9:5 Friends deceive each other, and will not speak the truth. They have taught their tongue to speak lies. They weary themselves commiting iniquity.
- Micah 7:5 Don’t trust in a neighbor. Don’t put confidence in a friend. With the woman lying in your embrace, be careful of the words of your mouth!
- Matthew 26:49-50 Immediately he came to Jesus, and said, “Hail, Rabbi!” and kissed him. Jesus said to him, “Friend, why are you here?” Then they came and laid hands on Jesus, and took him.
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain Jdg 14:20 But Samson’s wife was [given] to his…
Jdg 14:20 But Samson’s wife was [given] to his companion, whom he had used as his friend.
Ver. 20. But Samson’s wife was given to his companion.] To his Paranymph {a} {Joh 3:29} the first and chief brideman, his bosom friend, who haply had ploughed with this wanton heifer before. Wrongs done by a friend are more unsufferable. "It was thou, my friend," {Psa 55:13} saith David.
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{a} Pronubus, Nυμφαγωγος.
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain Samson’s wife was given, by her father, to the…
Samson’s wife was given, by her father, to the chief of the bridemen, to whom he had showed most respect and kindness.
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John Gill 1763 · Public Domain But Samson's wife was given to his companion,.... By…
But Samson's wife was given to his companion,.... By her father, and with her consent, both being affronted and provoked by Samson leaving her, who judged her not only to be injured, but hereby discharged from him, and free to marry another:
and whom he had used as his friend; though there were thirty of them that were his companions, yet there was one of them that was the principal of them, and was the most intimate with him, whom he used in the most friendly manner, and admitted to a more free conversation than the rest, the same that is called the friend of the bridegroom, Joh 3:29 while the others were called the children of the bridechamber, Mat 9:15. It is not unlikely that this person had too much intimacy with Samson's wife before, and so had the secret of the riddle from her, and so very readily married her, as soon as Samson departed; and all this furnished out an occasion and opportunity, which Samson sought for, to be revenged on the Philistines, as in the following chapter.
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John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain Was given - By her father. Whom he had…
Was given - By her father. Whom he had used - That is, to the chief of the bride-men, to whom he had shewed most respect and kindness.
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Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain Verse 20. But Samson's wife was given to his…
Verse 20. But Samson's wife was given to his companion] This was the same kind of person who is called the friend of the bridegroom, Joh 3:29. And it is very likely that she loved this person better than she loved her husband, and went to him as soon as Samson had gone to his father's house at Zorah. She might, however, have thought herself abandoned by him, and therefore took another; this appears to have been the persuasion of her father, Jdg 15:2. But her betraying his secret and his interests to his enemies was a full proof he was not very dear to her; though, to persuade him to the contrary, she shed many crocodile tears; see Jdg 14:16. He could not keep his own secret, and he was fool enough to suppose that another would be more faithful to him than he was to himself. Multitudes complain of the treachery of friends betraying their secrets, &c., never considering that they themselves have been their first betrayers, in confiding to others what they pretend to wish should be a secret to the whole world! If a man never let his secret out of his own bosom, it is impossible that he should ever be betrayed.
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Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain Jdg 14:20. Samson’s wife was given, by her father,…
Jdg 14:20. Samson’s wife was given, by her father, to his companion, &c. — That is, to the chief of the bride-men, to whom he had shown most respect and kindness. This aggravated the insult that was offered to Samson, in proportion as this person had been more familiar with him, and had been treated by him in a more friendly manner than the rest that afforded him their company. This ungenerous friend might possibly be the man distinguished by the appellation of the friend of the bridegroom. See Joh 3:29.
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Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain His companion - Perhaps one of those mentioned in…
His companion - Perhaps one of those mentioned in Jdg 14:11. The transaction denotes loose notions of the sanctity of marriage among the Philistines. It should be noted carefully that the practical lesson against ungodly marriages comes out most strongly in this case and that the providential purpose which out of this evil brought discomfiture to the Philistines, has nothing to do with the right or wrong of Samson’s conduct.
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Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain Companions, the chief friends of the bridegroom, (John iii.…
Companions, the chief friends of the bridegroom, (John iii. 29,) the paranymph. (St. Ambrose) (Calmet) --- Protestants, "But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, whom he had used as his friend." It seems her father had supposed, from Samson’s keeping away for a long time, that he had abandoned her. (Haydock) --- But, though he offered some sort of recompense, (Menochius) he justly fell a victim to the people’s rage, who abhorred adultery, (Calmet) and were irritated at the persecution which he had brought upon them, chap. xv. 2, 6. (Haydock)
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Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain Samson's wife was given to his companion, whom he…
Samson's wife was given to his companion, whom he had used as his friend--that is, "the friend of the bridegroom," who was the medium of communicating during the festivities between him and his bride. The acceptance of her hand, therefore, was an act of base treachery, that could not fail to provoke the just resentment of Samson.
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Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain 20. To his companion — One of the “thirty.”…
20. To his companion — One of the “thirty.” “To treason she adds infidelity. Meanness of disposition gives birth to every thing that is bad. It can neither love nor be faithful; but least of all can it comprehend such a man as Samson was.” — Cassel.
Whom he had used as his friend — Used most confidentially of the thirty, and had intrusted the most delicate matters to his hand. The one who was used for this purpose is called in the New Testament the friend of the bridegroom. Joh_3:29. The father of Samson’s wife understood from his anger that he utterly hated her, (Jdg_15:2,) and renounced all claim to her; but, instead of apologizing, or trying to turn away his wrath, he gave another exhibition of Philistine perfidy by giving her to a rival, and so made the breach utterly irreparable. Here notice how low was this Philistine’s notion of the sanctity of marriage.
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain 20. After this violent rupture, and to make up…
20. After this violent rupture, and to make up for the disgrace inflicted upon the bride, she was given to his groomsman who had acted as his groom; cf. Jdg_15:2; Jdg_15:6, St Joh_3:29. LXX. cod. A renders by the technical word νυμφαγωγός, the leader of the bride.
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Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain (20) To his companion, whom he had used as…
(20) To his companion, whom he had used as his friend—i.e., to the chief of the paranyraphs (the bride-conductor, LXX.); “the friend of the bride-groom” (Joh_3:29). Hence, even if the suspicion as to the meaning of Samson’s words in Jdg_14:18 be unfounded, it is clear that there was treachery and secret hostility at work. Bunsen renders the phrase, “to his companion, whose friend (amica) she was.”
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain His companion no doubt his "best man," the "friend…
His companion no doubt his "best man," the "friend of the bridegroom." The parents of the Thimnathite, having no doubt obtained Samson"s dower, and supposing him to have finally broken with his treacherous wife, proceeded to give her in marriage to the Philistine young man who had been Samson"s friend perhaps the man to whom she had told the riddle. The sad end of this unhappy alliance fully justified the opposition of Samson"s parents to it in ver. 3.
How Confidence in wicked men is rewarded.
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The world is full of such instances of misplaced trust. The fable of the viper and the husbandman. It is hard to persuade men of the utter folly of worldly friendships and alliances. Only the most severe warnings and painful consequences will suffice to disabuse the mind. At the same time that the carnal nature of God"s servant draws him towards the enemies of his country and his faith, God"s providential dispensations are working out an effectual divorce, and preparing Samson for deadly hostility to his quondam friends.
I THE CONFIDENCE WE PLACE IN THE WICKED WILL CERTAINLY BETRAY US.
II GOD SEEKS BY STERN LESSONS TO SEPARATE HIS PEOPLE FROM THE WORLD.
III NONE ARE SO OPPOSED TO THE CHARACTERS AND PRACTICES OF THE WICKED AS THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY THEM. M.
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