Let him sit alone and keep silence, because he has laid it on him.
Let him put his mouth in the dust, if it is so that there may be hope.
Let him give his cheek to him who strikes him. Let him be filled full of reproach.
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Let him sit alone and keep silence, because he has laid it on him.
Let him put his mouth in the dust, if it is so that there may be hope.
Let him give his cheek to him who strikes him. Let him be filled full of reproach.
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He sitteth alone and keepeth silence, because he hath borne it upon him.
He putteth his mouth in the dust; if so be there may be hope.
He giveth his cheek to him that smiteth him: he is filled full with reproach.
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Let him sit alone and keep silence, because He hath laid it upon him.
Let him put his mouth in the dust, if so be there may be hope.
Let him give his cheek to him that smiteth him, let him be filled full with reproach.
Cross-references (25)
- Job 16:10 (v30) They have gaped on me with their mouth. They have struck me on the cheek reproachfully. They gather themselves together against me.
- Isaiah 50:6 (v30) I gave my back to those who beat me, and my cheeks to those who plucked off the hair. I didn’t hide my face from shame and spitting.
- Jeremiah 15:17 (v28) I didn’t sit in the assembly of those who make merry and rejoice. I sat alone because of your hand, for you have filled me with indignation.
- Matthew 5:39 (v30) But I tell you, don’t resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also.
- Matthew 26:67 (v30) Then they spat in his face and beat him with their fists, and some slapped him,
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- Lamentations 2:10 (v28) The elders of the daughter of Zion sit on the ground. They keep silence. They have cast up dust on their heads. They have clothed…
- 2 Corinthians 11:20 (v30) For you bear with a man if he brings you into bondage, if he devours you, if he takes you captive, if he exalts himself, or if he strikes…
- Job 40:4 (v29) “Behold, I am of small account. What will I answer you? I lay my hand on my mouth.
- Psalms 69:20 (v30) Reproach has broken my heart, and I am full of heaviness. I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; for comforters, but I found…
- Psalms 123:3 (v30) Have mercy on us, Yahweh, have mercy on us, for we have endured much contempt.
- Micah 5:1 (v30) Now you shall gather yourself in troops, daughter of troops. He has laid siege against us. They will strike the judge of Israel with a rod…
- Luke 6:29 (v30) To him who strikes you on the cheek, offer also the other; and from him who takes away your cloak, don’t withhold your coat also.
- 2 Chronicles 33:12 (v29) When he was in distress, he begged Yahweh his God, and humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers.
- Job 42:5-6 (v29) I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you. Therefore I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes.”
- Psalms 69:9 (v30) For the zeal of your house consumes me. The reproaches of those who reproach you have fallen on me.
- Psalms 102:7 (v28) I watch, and have become like a sparrow that is alone on the housetop.
- Jeremiah 31:17 (v29) There is hope for your latter end,” says Yahweh. “Your children will come again to their own territory.
- Ezekiel 16:63 (v29) that you may remember, and be confounded, and never open your mouth any more, because of your shame, when I have forgiven you all that you…
- Joel 2:14 (v29) Who knows? He may turn and relent, and leave a blessing behind him, even a meal offering and a drink offering to Yahweh, your God.
- Jonah 3:9 (v29) Who knows whether God will not turn and relent, and turn away from his fierce anger, so that we might not perish?”
- Zephaniah 2:3 (v29) Seek Yahweh, all you humble of the land, who have kept his ordinances. Seek righteousness. Seek humility. It may be that you will be hidden…
- Luke 15:18-19 (v29) I will get up and go to my father, and will tell him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight. I am no more worthy to be…
- Luke 18:13 (v29) But the tax collector, standing far away, wouldn’t even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a…
- Romans 3:19 (v29) Now we know that whatever things the law says, it speaks to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be closed, and all the world…
- Psalms 39:9 (v28) I was mute. I didn’t open my mouth, because you did it.
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John Calvin 1540 · Public Domain On vv28–30 Here he shews the fruit of teachableness; for when…
Here he shews the fruit of teachableness; for when God deals severely with his children, they yet do not rebel, but even then they willingly submit to his authority. For whence comes it that so much impatience rages in men, except that they know not what it is to obey God, to prepare themselves to bear the yoke? so, then, men become furious like wild beasts, never tamed, therefore the Prophet now says, “Whosoever is thus habituated to the yoke of God, will also be silent in extreme evils, and remain quiet.” We now perceive what I have just said, that the fruit of docility and obedience is set forth in this verse.
But when he says that those who are thus trained to obey God will sit apart, he expresses most fitly the strength and character of patience. For they for the most part who wish to appear magnanimous make a great display, and think that their valor is nothing except they appear as on a theater; they allow themselves at the same time an unbridled liberty when they are alone; for they who seem the most valorous, except God’s fear and true religion prevail in their souls, rage against God and champ the bridle in adversities, though they may not make a clamor before men, for, as I have already said, they regard display. But here a very different account is given of patience, even that we are to sit alone and be silent, that is, even were no one present as a witness, whose presence might make us ashamed; were we even then to sit, and to submit with calm minds to God, and to take his yoke, we should thus prove our patience. This verse then distiguishes between the simplicity of the godly and that will display in which they delight who seek to obtain the praise of courage, patience, and perseverance, from the world; for these also sit and speak words as from heaven, and as though they had put off the flesh. He who has lost a son will say, that he had begotten a mortal: he who is stripped of all his goods will say, “All my things I carry with me.” Thus magnanimously do ungodly men speak, so that they seem to surpass in fortitude and firmness all the children of God. But when they give utterance to these swelling words, what they regard is the opinion which men may form of them. But the faithful, what do they do? They sit apart, that is, though they might shamelessly clamor against God, yet they are quiet and submit to his will. We now understand what is meant by sitting apart.
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Then he says, because he will carry it on himself Some take נטל nuthel, in a transitive sense, “he will cast it upon him.” But this is a forced rendering. It would be a simpler meaning, were we to say, because he will carry or raise it on himself. The verb נטל, nuthel, means not only to carry, but also elevate or raise up. When, therefore, the Prophet says, that it is an example of real patience when we carry it on ourselves, he means that we succumb not under our adversities, nor are overwhelmed by them; for it is patience when it is not grievous to us to undergo any burdens which God may lay on us; and on this account we are said to regard his yoke as not grievous — how so? because it is pleasant to us. As, then, meekness thus extenuates the heaviness of the burden, which would otherwise overwhelm us, the Prophet says that those who raise up on themselves all their troubles sit apart.
I do not, however, know whether this passage has been corrupted; for the expression seems not to me natural. Were we to read עלו, olu, his yoke, it would be more appropriate, and a reason would be given for what goes before, that the faithful sit apart and are silent before God, because they bear his yoke; for the pronoun may be referred to God as well as to man. But this is only a conjecture. It follows, —
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Geneva Bible translators 1599 · Public Domain On vv28–29 He murmureth not against God, but is patient.
He murmureth not against God, but is patient.
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv28–30 Lam 3:28 He sitteth alone and keepeth silence, because…
Lam 3:28 He sitteth alone and keepeth silence, because he hath borne [it] upon him.
Ver. 28. He sitteth alone.] Sessio solitaria, as being much in meditation, according to that counsel of the preacher, "in the day of adversity consider."
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And keepeth silence.] When God’s hand is upon his back, his hand is upon his mouth. See on Lam 3:26.
Because he hath borne it upon him.] Or, When he hath taken it upon him; taken up his cross, as being active in suffering.
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On vv28–30 Our English Annotations supplying that, makes the connexion clear,…
Our English Annotations supplying that, makes the connexion clear, It is good for a man that he sit alone, Jer 15:17; not doing what he doth to be seen of men, but sitting alone, and when he is alone suppressing the mutinies of his spirit, and keeping his soul in subjection to God; because God hath humbled him by his rod, humbling himself to his will.
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John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv28–30 He putteth his mouth in the dust,.... Of self-abhorrence;…
He putteth his mouth in the dust,.... Of self-abhorrence; sensible of his own vileness and nothingness, his unworthiness, and the unprofitableness of all his duties; ascribing the whole of his salvation to the free grace of God, Job 42:6; humbling himself under the mighty hand of God; not daring to open his mouth in a complaining way against him; but prostrating himself before him to the earth, as the manner of the eastern people in prayer was, to which the allusion is; licking as it were the dust of the earth, under a sense of the distance and disproportion between God and him, who is but dust and ashes; so the Targum adds,
"and is prostrate before the Lord:''
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if so be there may be hope; or, "peradventure there is hope" (d); for, as some interpreters observe, these words do not express hesitation and doubt, but hope and expectation of help, to bear the yoke of God's commandments, and in due time to be delivered from affliction and distress.
(d) "forte est expectatio", Junius & Tremellius; "fortassis", Piscator, Cocceius; "forte est spes", Michaelis.
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John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain On vv28–29 Born it - That he keep his soul in…
Born it - That he keep his soul in subjection to God, because God hath humbled him by his rod.
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Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain On vv28–30 Verse 28. He sitteth alone] He has learned that…
Verse 28. He sitteth alone] He has learned that necessary lesson of independence, that shows him how he is to serve himself; to give no trouble to others; and keep his troubles, as far as possible, in his own bosom.
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Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain On v28 Let him sit alone and keep silence;
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Let him sit alone and keep silence;
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For He (God) hath laid the yoke upon him.
Let him place his mouth in the dust;
Perchance there is hope.
Let him offer his cheek to him that smiteth him;
Let him be filled to the full with reproach.
It is good for a man to bear the yoke in his youth, but only if he bear it rightly. To attain this result, let him learn resignation, remembering who has laid the yoke upon him. This reverential silence is described Lam 3:29, as putting the mouth in the dust, and so lying prostrate before the Deity; while Lam 3:30 the harder task is imposed of bearing contumely with meekness (margin reference), and not shrinking from the last dregs of the cup of reproach. Many who submit readily to God are indignant when the suffering comes through men.
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Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On vv28–30 Himself, with perfect resignation.
Himself, with perfect resignation.
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Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On vv28–30 The fruit of true docility and patience. He does…
The fruit of true docility and patience. He does not fight against the yoke (Jer 31:18; Act 9:5), but accommodates himself to it.
alone--The heathen applauded magnanimity, but they looked to display and the praise of men. The child of God, in the absence of any witness, "alone," silently submits to the will of God.
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borne it upon him--that is, because he is used to bearing it on him. Rather, "because He (the Lord, Lam 3:26) hath laid it on him" [VATABLUS].
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Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On v28 28-30. He sitteth — The verbs commencing these verses…
28-30. He sitteth — The verbs commencing these verses are apocopated futures, and should be rendered with a passive sense, as: Let him sit alone and keep silence; Let him put his mouth in the dust; Let him give his cheek, etc. The second clause of Lam_3:28 should read: For He (God) hath laid on him the burden. “There is a certain gradation in the three verses that is quite unmistakable. The sitting alone and in silence is comparatively the easiest; it is harder to place the mouth in the dust, and yet cling to hope; it is most difficult of all to give the cheek to the smiter, and to satiate one’s self with dishonour.” — Keil.
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On vv28–30 28. The hortative form is better than mg. He…
28. The hortative form is better than mg. He sitteth alone, etc. For sitting alone in grief, cp. Jer_15:17. The connexion is, inasmuch as suffering is really attended with benefit to the sufferer, let him submit readily to it.
hath laid] The subject is God.
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Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv28–30 (28) He sitteth alone . . .—Better, Let him…
(28) He sitteth alone . . .—Better, Let him sit alone, and keep silence when He (Jehovah) hath laid it (the yoke) upon him; and so in the next verses, Let him put his mouth . . . Let him give his cheek.
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On vv28–30 Vers. 28-30. He sitteth alone, etc.; rather, Let him…
Vers. 28-30. He sitteth alone, etc.; rather, Let him sit alone... let him keep silence (ver. 28)... let him put (ver. 29)... let him give... let him be filled (ver. 30). The connection is since it is good for a man to be afflicted, let him sit still, when trouble is sent, and resign himself to bear it.
Because he hath borne it; rather, when he (viz. God) hath laid it.
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The Preacher's Complete Homiletical Commentary 1892 · Public Domain On v28 (י) Lam_3:28. A yoke is not of itself beneficial;…
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(י) Lam_3:28. A yoke is not of itself beneficial; it must be borne along with desires and efforts to reach to its purpose. “Since it is good for man that he should learn to endure suffering, let him sit still and bear it patiently; … let him sit solitary, as becomes those in sorrow, and be silent without murmuring when God puts such a burden on him.”—Keil. The fogs of the world, if a man enters into them, may veil the waymarks of God.
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Lam_3:29. Let him put his mouth in the dust—significant of being humbled under the mighty hand of God—indulging in no whimpers, framing no self-excuses, making no boasts, only waiting to hear what God the Lord will speak, and by no means despairing of help for every time of need. It may be there is hope.
Lam_3:30. Let him give his cheek to him that smiteth him, as was similarly enforced in the Sermon on the Mount (Mat_5:39). and involving the wider application, when reviled not to revile again. Exemplified by Job, by the prophetic Servant of Jehovah, by the greatest of all Sufferers. The gradation is perceptible. “The sitting alone and in silence is comparatively the easiest. It is harder to place the mouth in the dust and yet cling to hope; it is most difficult of all to give the cheek to the smiter, and to satiate oneself with dishonour” (Naegel.), be filled full with reproaches.
HOMILETICS
RESIGNATION
(Lam_3:28-30)
I. Should be borne in silence, recognising the hand of God in affliction. “He sitteth alone and keepeth silence, because He hath borne it upon Him” (Lam_3:28). It is difficult for an active spirit to settle down contentedly and in silence in any kind of circumstances. We cannot rid ourselves of the idea that something is to be done, and we must do it. If our misfortunes come as the result of our own folly, we feel we must do something to repair the damage, little dreaming how utterly useless are all our endeavours. When at length the truth dawns upon us that God is at work in connection with our sufferings, the soul is at once subdued into silence and patiently waits the issue. Something like this was once the experience of the Psalmist (Psa_39:9).
II. Should be borne with reverential humility, knowing there is hope of deliverance. “He putteth his mouth in the dust, if so be there may be hope” (Lam_3:29). The putting the mouth in the dust indicates how completely the soul is prostrated before God in humility and reverential silence. The soul can bear any burden when it knows that the hand of God imposes it, and that He has still hold of it. While we are conscious God is in touch with our burden, there is always hope of its removal. It is when God leaves us to our fate that hope dies. Resignation is no evidence of hopelessness, but rather an evidence how firmly our hope is grounded. We could not so completely cease from all personal effort were we not so fully assured of Divine deliverance.
III. Should be borne without resentment, not shrinking from the bitterest dregs of the cup. “He giveth his cheek to him that smiteth him; he is filled full with reproach” (Lam_3:30). We are to be resigned, but not insensible; submissive, but not apathetic. We are keenly alive to the reproaches heaped upon us by our enemies. Our very resignation is offensive to them, and is made a handle of scorn. It is hard to bear the jeers of others without retaliation. When our sufferings come through our fellow-men, it is but human to resent their attacks with indignation—to meet scorn with scorn. But when we are sensible our troubles come from God, we can more readily submit, and we have grace given to bear, without resentment, all that it may please Him to impose upon us. Behind the divine severity there is unspeakable gentleness.
LESSONS.—
1. The greatest sorrow must be borne alone and in silence.
2. Murmuring and resentment will increase, but not relieve our sufferings.
3. A spirit of humble resignation secures the Divine compassion and help.
GERM NOTES ON THE VERSES
Lam_3:28-30. Silent suffering. I. Not the less acute because endured in silence (Lam_3:28). II. Is bearable when the soul has a glimmering of hope (Lam_3:29). III. Shows that the sufferer has exhausted every possible ground for complaint (Lam_3:30).
Lam_3:28. Retirement and silence.
“What then should be a sinner’s course?
Silence to all save himself and his God.
And so also our Lord ‘became dumb;
He still waited upon his Father;
He made as if He had nothing to say.
How much more should we be silent in our guilt!
Thou hast sinned in company,
Learn to do without company at all.
Thou hast dealt rudely with thy God,
Be content to be rudely dealt with.
Thou hast forsaken Him,
Be content to be forsaken.
Thou hast sinned in talk,
Be content to keep silence.
Thou hast sinned in selfish ways,
Be content, nay be glad, to be overlooked,
To be disappointed—forgotten.
The less thou art able to retire at fixed times,
Be the more watchful to do so at occasional times.
Thou hast sinned in boasting,
Be sometimes silent, even from good words.
Thou hast sinned by cowardice,
Force thyself to speak—in truthfulness to confess.
Accept bereavements, separations, estrangements,
As opportunities of penance assigned by Him.
That He may open thy mouth at last,
To shew forth His praise,
And nothing but His praise.”
—Keble.
ILLUSTRATIONS.—Resignation to the will of God. A remarkable instance of Christian resignation was discovered on one particular occasion in the conduct of Archbishop Fenélon. When his illustrious and hopeful pupil, the Duke of Burgundy, lay dead in his coffin, and the nobles of his court, in all the pomp of silent sadness, stood around, the Archbishop came into the apartment, and having fixed his eyes for some time on the corpse, broke out at length in words to this effect—“There lies my beloved prince, for whom my affections were equal to the tenderest regard of the tenderest parents. Nor were my affections lost; he loved me in return with all the ardour of a son. There he lies, and all my worldly happiness lies dead with him. But if the turning of a straw would call him back to life, I would not for ten thousand worlds be the turner of that straw in opposition to the will of God.”
Soul-growth aided by silence. Some of the best and most beautiful works are perfected in silence. In the making of plate-glass the process of pouring the melted material is so delicate, requiring such care and steadiness, that the men, impressed with the great danger of carelessness, usually preserve silence during the process.
Humility a help to knowledge. When the recent military expedition went to Lower Egypt, it was found that only the smallest boats could go great distances up the Nile. There are some truths that are only revealed to those who grow in loneliness and self-forgetfulness—secret teachings which are reserved for those who are intensely childlike in spirit. “Blessed are the poor in spirit.”
Heroic endurance. One of the secrets of Victor Hugo’s power over the French people was their memory of the following. When the disasters of the Franco-German war were falling thickly, and the iron band was closing round Paris, word came that Victor Hugo was coming to the city. He came at the very moment that the investment was complete, with the last train, the last breath of free air. On the way he had seen the Bavarians, seen villages burned with petroleum, and he came to imprison himself in Paris. A memorable ovation was given him by the people, and they never forgot his voluntary sharing of their sufferings.
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unfoldingWord translationNotes 2017 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On v30 General Information:
General Information:
The writer speaks of the one who waits for Yahweh (Lamentations 3:25).
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Let him offer his cheek to the one who strikes him
The word "him" refers to anyone who is suffering and who waits for Yahweh. Here "offer his cheek" represents allowing someone to strike his cheek. AT: "Let him allow people to hit him on the face" (See: Metaphor)
let him be filled to the full with reproach
The author speaks of a person as if he were a container and reproach were a liquid. Being filled with reproach represents being reproached much. The implication is that he should be patient when this happens. AT: "let him be insulted much" or "let him be patient when people reproach him" (See: Metaphor)
though he causes grief
"though the Lord causes people to suffer" or "though he afflicts people"
he will have compassion
"he will be compassionate to them"
For he does not afflict from his heart
Here the heart represents desire or pleasure, and afflicting from the heart represents afflicting with pleasure. AT: "For it does not make him happy to afflict people" or "He does not take pleasure in afflicting people" (See: Metonymy)
the children of mankind
This refers to people in general. AT: "human beings" or "people" (See: Idiom)
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disgrace
lord
reject
eternity
compassion
afflicted
heart
torment
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Tyndale Open Study Notes 2022 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv28–29 3:28 sit alone in silence: Humble submission stops the…
3:28 sit alone in silence: Humble submission stops the tongue and quiets the heart.
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