“When you are invited by anyone to a wedding feast, don’t sit in the best seat, since perhaps someone more honorable than you might be invited by him, and he who invited both of you would come and tell you, ‘Make room for this person.’ Then you would begin, with shame, to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when he who invited you comes, he may tell you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you.
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He spoke a parable to those who were invited, when he noticed how they chose the best seats, and said to them, “When you are invited by anyone to a wedding feast, don’t sit in the best seat, since perhaps someone more honorable than you might be invited by him, and he who invited both of you would come and tell you, ‘Make room for this person.’ Then you would begin, with shame, to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when he who invited you comes, he may tell you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
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“When you are invited by anyone to a wedding feast, don’t sit in the best seat, since perhaps someone more honorable than you might be invited by him,
and he who invited both of you would come and tell you, ‘Make room for this person.’ Then you would begin, with shame, to take the lowest place.
But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when he who invited you comes, he may tell you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you.
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When thou arte bidde to a weddynge of eny man syt not doune in the hyest roume lest a more honorable man then thou be bidden of him
and he that bade bothe him and the come and saye to the: geve this man roume and thou then beginne with shame to take the lowest roume.
But rather when thou arte bidden goo and syt in the lowest roume that when he that bade the cometh he maye saye vnto the: frende syt vp hyer. Then shalt thou have worshippe in the presence of them that syt at meate with the.
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When thou shalt be bidden of any man to a wedding, set not thy selfe downe in the chiefest place, lest a more honourable man then thou, be bidden of him,
And he that bade both him and thee, come, and say to thee, Giue this man roome, and thou then begin with shame to take the lowest roome.
But when thou art bidden, goe and sit downe in the lowest roome, that when he that bade thee, cometh, he may say vnto thee, Friende, sit vp hier: then shalt thou haue worship in the presence of them that sit at table with thee.
Cross-references (12)
- Proverbs 25:6-7 (vv8, 10) Don’t exalt yourself in the presence of the king, or claim a place among great men; for it is better that it be said to you, “Come up…
- Proverbs 16:18 (v9) Pride goes before destruction, and an arrogant spirit before a fall.
- Proverbs 11:2 (v9) When pride comes, then comes shame, but with humility comes wisdom.
- Proverbs 15:33 (v10) The fear of Yahweh teaches wisdom. Before honor is humility.
- Proverbs 3:35 (v9) The wise will inherit glory, but shame will be the promotion of fools.
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- Esther 6:6-12 (v9) So Haman came in. The king said to him, “What shall be done to the man whom the king delights to honor?” Now Haman said in his heart, “Who…
- Isaiah 60:14 (v10) The sons of those who afflicted you will come bowing to you; and all those who despised you will bow themselves down at the soles of your…
- Ezekiel 28:2-10 (v9) “Son of man, tell the prince of Tyre, ‘The Lord Yahweh says: “Because your heart is lifted up, and you have said, ‘I am a god, I sit in the…
- Daniel 4:30-34 (v9) The king spoke and said, “Is not this great Babylon, which I have built for the royal dwelling place, by the might of my power and for the…
- 1 Samuel 15:17 (v10) Samuel said, “Though you were little in your own sight, weren’t you made the head of the tribes of Israel? Yahweh anointed you king over…
- Revelation 3:9 (v10) Behold, I give some of the synagogue of Satan, of those who say they are Jews, and they are not, but lie—behold, I will make them to come…
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv8–10 8 When thou art bidden of any man to…
8 When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding, sit not down in the highest room; lest a more honourable man than thou be bidden of him;
Ver. 8. When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding] When should a man rather feast than at the recovery of his lost rib?
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On v8 Two or three moral instructions we have in this…
Two or three moral instructions we have in this parable.
1. That the law of Christ justifieth none in any rudeness and incivility.
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2. That the disciples of Christ ought to have a regard to their reputation, to do nothing they may be ashamed of.
3. That it is according to the will of God, that honour should be given to those to whom honour belongeth; that the more honourable persons should sit in the more honourable places.
Grace gives men no exterior preference; though it makes men all glorious, yet it is within. But the more spiritual instruction (for which our Saviour put forth this parable) is in Luk 14:11. Our Saviour had but now, in the sight of these Pharisees, cured a man of a bodily dropsy; he is now attempting a cure of the spiritual dropsy of pride in their souls. He had before denounced a woe against the Pharisees for loving the uppermost seats in the synagogues, Luk 11:43, and told us, Mat 23:6, that they loved the uppermost rooms at feasts, and possibly he might at this feast see something of it. He therefore applies his discourse by pressing upon them humility, and showing them the danger of pride, which though it be a vice seated in the heart, yet by such little things discovereth itself in the outward conversation. He tells them, that God is such an enemy to pride, that he ordinarily so ordereth it in the government of the world, that usually self-exalting people are by one means or other abused, and brought to shame and contempt, and those that are low in their own eyes are exalted; and if it doth not so fall out here, yet this will be what will at the last day befall them, in the day of God’s righteous judgment.
See Poole on "Mat 23:12". We shall meet with the same again, Luk 18:14.
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John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv8–10 And he that bade thee and him,.... To the…
And he that bade thee and him,.... To the feast, and who is the master of it, and has a right to dispose of, and order his guests at his table, as he thinks fit:
come and say to thee, give this man place; pray rise up, and give this honourable man this seat, which is more suitable for a person of his rank and figure, and take another:
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and thou begin with shame to take the lowest room; or place, which must unavoidably fill a man with shame and confusion; because hereby his pride and vanity, in affecting the uppermost room, will be publicly exposed; and he who before sat in the chief place, will have the mortification, before all the guests, to be seated in the lowest.
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Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain On vv8, 10 Art bidden - Are invited.
Art bidden - Are invited.
To a wedding - A wedding was commonly attended with a feast or banquet.
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The highest room - The seat at the table nearest the head.
A more honourable man - A more aged man, or a man of higher rank. It is to be remarked that our Saviour did not consider the courtesies of life to be beneath his notice. His chief design here was, no doubt, to reprove the pride and ambition of the Pharisees; but, in doing it, he teaches us that religion does not violate the courtesies of life. It does not teach us to be rude, forward, pert, assuming, and despising the proprieties of refined social contact. It teaches humility and kindness, and a desire to make all happy, and a willingness to occupy our appropriate situation and rank in life; and this is true “politeness,” for true politeness is a desire to make all others happy, and a readiness to do whatever is necessary to make them so. They have utterly mistaken the nature of religion who suppose that because they are professed Christians, they must be rude and uncivil, and violate all the distinctions in society. The example and precepts of Jesus Christ were utterly unlike such conduct. He teaches us to be kind, and to treat people according to their rank and character. Compare Mat 22:21; Rom 13:7; 1Pe 2:17.
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Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On v9 The lowest place. A person of the first quality…
The lowest place. A person of the first quality is not to do this literally, which would be preposterous; but it is to teach every on humility of heart and mind. (Witham)
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Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On vv8–10 wedding--and seating thyself at the wedding feast. Our Lord…
wedding--and seating thyself at the wedding feast. Our Lord avoids the appearance of personality by this delicate allusion to a different kind of entertainment than this of his host [BENGEL].
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Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On vv8–10 8. A wedding—The Greek term had become applicable to…
8. A wedding—The Greek term had become applicable to any feast.
Highest room—See note on Mat_23:6. Which was the most honourable place was decided, by custom, differently among different nations. Among the Greeks and Romans each couch was a triclinium, or triple seat; of the three the holder of the middle place was the most honourable; and the triclinium of the host at the head of the table was the most honourable among the couches. It would seem that among the Jews the host did not, as among us, assign the place, and quarrels among the guests about the precedence were very common.
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A more honourable man—Whose dignity perhaps induces him to come in late, and by his coming attract the general attention to his importance.
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On vv8–10 8. to a wedding] The term is used generally…
8. to a wedding] The term is used generally for any great feast; but perhaps our Lord here adopted it to make His lesson less immediately personal.
a more honourable man than thou] Php_2:3, “in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.”
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Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv8–10 (8) Sit not down.—Literally, recline not.
(8) Sit not down.—Literally, recline not.
Lest a more honourable man than thou . . .—The words imply that the common practice was for the guests to seat themselves; then, as in the parable of the wedding garment (Mat_22:11), the host came in “to see the guests.”
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On v8 Vers. 8, 9. When thou art hidden of any…
Vers. 8, 9. When thou art hidden of any man to a wedding, sit not down in the highest room. The pretensions and conceit of the Jewish doctors of the Law had been for a long period intolerable. We have repeated examples in the Talmud of the exaggerated estimate these, the scholars and doctors of the Law, formed of themselves, and of the respect they exacted from all classes of the community. One can well imagine the grave displeasure with which the Divine Teacher looked upon this unholy frame of mind, and upon the miserable petty struggles which constantly were resulting from it. The expositors of the Law of God, the religious guides of the people, were setting an example of self-seeking, were showing what was their estimate of a fitting reward, what was the crown of learning which they coveted the first seats at a banquet, the title of respect and honour! How the Lord the very essence of whose teaching was self-surrender and self-sacrifice must have mourned over such pitiful exhibitions of weakness shown by the men who claimed to sit in Moses" seat! Lest a more honourable man than thou be bidden of him; and he that bade thee and him come and say to thee, Give this man place. As an instance of such unseemly contention, Dr. Farrar quotes from the Talmud how, "at a banquet of King Alexander Jannaeus, the rabbi Simeon ben Shetach, in spite of the presence of some great Persian satraps, had thrust himself at table between the king and queen, and when rebuked for his intrusion quoted in his defence Ecc 15:5, "Exalt wisdom, and She... shall make thee sit among princes.
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unfoldingWord translationNotes 2017 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On v10 Connecting Statement:
Connecting Statement:
Jesus continues speaking to the people at the Pharisee's house.
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when you are invited
This can be stated in active form. AT: "when someone invites you" (See: Active or Passive)
the lowest place
"the seat meant for the least important person"
go up higher
"move to a seat for a more important person"
Then you will be honored
This can be stated in active form. AT: "Then the one who invited you will honor you" (See: Active or Passive)
who exalts himself
"who tries to look important" or "who takes an important position"
will be humbled
"will be shown to be unimportant" or "will be given an unimportant position." This can be stated in active form. AT: "God will humble" (See: Active or Passive)
humbles himself
"who chooses to look unimportant" or "who takes an unimportant position"
will be exalted
"will be shown to be important" or "will be given an important position." This can be stated in active form. AT: "God will exalt" (See: Active or Passive)
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exalt
humble
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Tyndale Open Study Notes 2022 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv8–9 14:8 Jesus’ response was a commentary on Prov 25:6-7.
14:8 Jesus’ response was a commentary on Prov 25:6-7.
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