House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh.
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House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh.
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House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.
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House and riches are the inheritance of fathers; but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
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Passages linked to Proverbs 19:14 in the Treasury of Scripture Knowledge, ordered by reader-vote popularity; verse text shown in World English Bible.
- Proverbs 18:22 Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh.
- Proverbs 31:10-31 Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works eagerly with her hands. She is like the merchant ships. She brings her bread from afar. She rises also while it is yet night, gives food to her household, and portions for her servant girls. She considers a field, and buys it. With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard. She arms her waist with strength, and makes her arms strong. She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp doesn’t go out by night. She lays her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle. She opens her arms to the poor; yes, she extends her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She makes for herself carpets of tapestry. Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and delivers sashes to the merchant. Strength and dignity are her clothing. She laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom. Kind instruction is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household, and doesn’t eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands! Let her works praise her in the gates!
- Proverbs 13:22 A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the wealth of the sinner is stored for the righteous.
- Proverbs 3:6 In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
- James 1:17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom can be no variation, nor turning shadow.
- Genesis 28:1-4 Isaac called Jacob, blessed him, and commanded him, “You shall not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan. Arise, go to Paddan Aram, to the house of Bethuel your mother’s father. Take a wife from there from the daughters of Laban, your mother’s brother. May God Almighty bless you, and make you fruitful, and multiply you, that you may be a company of peoples, and give you the blessing of Abraham, to you and to your offspring with you, that you may inherit the land where you travel, which God gave to Abraham.”
- 2 Corinthians 12:14 Behold, this is the third time I am ready to come to you, and I will not be a burden to you; for I seek not your possessions, but you. For the children ought not to save up for the parents, but the parents for the children.
- Deuteronomy 21:16 then it shall be, in the day that he causes his sons to inherit that which he has, that he may not give the son of the beloved the rights of the firstborn before the son of the hated, who is the firstborn;
- Genesis 24:7 Yahweh, the God of heaven—who took me from my father’s house, and from the land of my birth, who spoke to me, and who swore to me, saying, ‘I will give this land to your offspring—he will send his angel before you, and you shall take a wife for my son from there.
- Joshua 11:23 So Joshua took the whole land, according to all that Yahweh spoke to Moses; and Joshua gave it for an inheritance to Israel according to their divisions by their tribes. Then the land had rest from war.
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain Pro 19:14 House and riches [are] the inheritance of…
Pro 19:14 House and riches [are] the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife [is] from the LORD.
Ver. 14. House and riches are the inheritance of the fathers.] Viz., More immediately. God gives them to the parents, and they leave them to their children, being moved thereto by God. Though a carnal heart looks no higher than parents, cares not, so he may have it, whence he hath it. It is dos non Deus that maketh marriages with them - good enough, if goods enough. Money is the greatest meddler, and drives the bargain and business to an upshot. Mostly such matches prove unhappy and uncomfortable. How can it be otherwise, since Hic Deus nihil fecit? God indeed had a hand in it, but for their just punishment that so followed after lying vanities, and so forsook their own mercies.
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But a prudent wife is of the Lord.] Nature makes a woman, election a wife; but to be prudent, wise, and virtuous is of the Lord. A good wife was one of the first real and royal gifts bestowed on Adam. God set all the creatures before him ere he gave him a wife, that, seeing no other fit help, he might prize such a gift; not a gift of industry, but of destiny, as one saith; for "marriages are made in heaven," as the common sort can say, and as very heathens acknowledge. The governor of Eskichisar, hearing Othoman the great Turk’s relation of a fair lady whom he was in love with, and had highly commended for her virtues, seemed greatly to like his choice, saying that she was by the divine providence appointed only for him to have. {a}
{a} Turkish Hist., fol. 136.
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain Is vouchsafed to a man by the singular providence…
Is vouchsafed to a man by the singular providence of God, who is the only searcher and ruler of hearts, exactly discerning who are prudent or pious, in which even wise men’s judgments are commonly mistaken, and inclining the minds and hearts of persons one towards another.
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Matthew Henry 1710 · Public Domain Note, 1. A discreet and virtuous wife is a…
Note, 1. A discreet and virtuous wife is a choice gift of God's providence to a man - a wife that is prudent, in opposition to one that is contentious, Pro 19:13. For, though a wife that is continually finding fault may think it is her wit and wisdom to be so, it is really her folly; a prudent wife is meek and quiet, and makes the best of every thing. If a man has such a wife, let him not ascribe it to the wisdom of his own choice or his own management (for the wisest have been deceived both in and by a woman), but let him ascribe it to the goodness of God, who made him a help meet for him, and perhaps by some hits and turns of providence that seemed casual brought her to him. Every creature is what he makes it. Happy marriages, we are sure, are made in heaven; Abraham's servant prayed in the belief of this, Gen 24:12. 2. It is a more valuable gift than house and riches, contributes more to the comfort and credit of a man's life and the welfare of his family, is a greater token of God's favour, and about which the divine providence is in a more especial manner conversant. A good estate may be the inheritance of fathers, which, by the common direction of Providence, comes in course to a man; but no man has a good wife by descent or entail. Parents that are worldly, in disposing of their children, look no further than to match them to house and riches, but, if withal it be to a prudent wife, let God have the glory.
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John Gill 1763 · Public Domain Houses and riches are the inheritance of fathers,.... Which…
Houses and riches are the inheritance of fathers,.... Which they are careful to provide and leave to their children. This they may and often do, build or purchase houses, and procure great riches, and put their children into the possession of them;
and, or but,
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a prudent wife is from the Lord; one that behaves well to her husband, massages the affairs of her house with wisdom, and brings up her children in all orderly manner: such a wife no man has from the care and provision of his parents; nor so much from his own good choice and industry as from the kind providence of God, to which he should ascribe it; his parents may give him houses and lands, but it is God that gives him a wise and discreet woman to be an helpmeet to him; see Pro 18:22.
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Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain Verse 14. A prudent wife is from the Lord.]…
Verse 14. A prudent wife is from the Lord.] One who has a good understanding, אשה משכלת ishshah mascaleth; who avoids complaining, though she may often have cause for it.
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Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain Pro 19:14. House and riches are the inheritance of…
Pro 19:14. House and riches are the inheritance of fathers, &c. — Parents may bestow on their children houses, and lands, and riches; but a prudent wife is from the Lord — Is vouchsafed to a man by the singular providence of God, who is the only searcher and ruler of hearts, exactly discerning who are prudent or pious, (with regard to which the judgments even of wise men are frequently mistaken,) and inclining the hearts of persons one toward another. So that when such a wife falls to the lot of any one, he should look upon it as a singular favour of God to him, for which he ought to be very thankful.
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Charles Bridges 1846 · Public Domain "Every good gift is from the Lord" (Jas 1:17…
"Every good gift is from the Lord" (Jas 1:17 ); only, some in the ordinary course; others more directly from him. Houses and riches, though his gifts, come by descent. They are the inheritance of fathers.†1 The heir is known, and in the course of events he takes possession of his estate. But the prudent wife is wholly unconnected with the man. There has been no previous bond of relation.†2 She is often brought from a distance.†3 "The LORD brought her to the man"†4 by his special Providence, and therefore as his special gift. The history of Ruth beautifully illustrates the train of matrimonial Providence. The Moabitess married, contrary to all human probability, a man of Israel, that she might be brought into Naomi’s family, return with her to her own land, and in course of filial duty be brought under the eye, and drawn to the heart of Boaz, her appointed husband. (Rth 1:1-4 ; Rth 4:13 .) Often do the wheels of the LORD’s working in this interesting matter constrain the admiration of men not well exercised in spiritual observation. (Gen 24:50 .) And how much more endearing and secure is a special gift of God! The bread coming down from heaven was more valued, than if it had been the fruit of labour. Thus is the prudent wife honoured, as ’a special blessing of God’s immediate choosing, and therefore to be obtained by our prayers at the hand of the giver.’†5 The prudence, however, here described, implies not only her wise governing of her household,†6 but that godly consideration connected with Divine wisdom,†7 by which she becomes the joy and confidence of her husband:†8 as the contentious wife is his trouble and disgrace.
But is not the husband, no less than the wife, from the LORD? Let each prospectively seek the blessing of God’s ordinance; never trusting to his own judgment and affections, without primary reference to his guidance. (Pro 3:6 .) Let us realize the responsibility, as well as the indulgent comfort, of the union; ever counting it a talent for God, for his service and glory; and not doubting for ourselves, that ’all things shall turn to our commodity and comfort, if we draw the yoke in one concord of heart and mind.’†9
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†1 Pro 13:22. Num 27:7 . Deu 21:16 . 1Ki 21:3-4 . 2Co 12:14 .
†2 1Sa 25:39-42 .
†3 Gen 24:4-5.
†4 Gen 2:22.
†5 Bishop Hall.
†6 Pro 31:27.
†7 Pro 8:12.
†8 Pro 18:22; Pro 31:11, Pro 31:23, Pro 31:28 .
†9 Homily on Matrimony.
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Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain Properly. Septuagint, "fitted by." (Haydock) --- Hence the Fathers…
Properly. Septuagint, "fitted by." (Haydock) --- Hence the Fathers dissuade marrying with infidels. (St. Ambrose in Luke xvi.) --- All good comes from God.
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Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain A contrast of men's gifts and God's, who, though…
A contrast of men's gifts and God's, who, though author of both blessings, confers the latter by His more special providence.
and--or, "but," implying that the evils of Pro 19:13 are only avoided by His care.
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Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain 14. Inheritance of fathers — That is, such as…
14. Inheritance of fathers — That is, such as may be inherited.
A prudent wife — The greatest of earthly blessings is a special boon from Jehovah. Compare Pro_18:22.
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain 14. the inheritance of] Rather, an inheritance from (R.V.);…
14. the inheritance of] Rather, an inheritance from (R.V.); i.e. derived from.
And] Rather, But.
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οἶκον καὶ ὕπαρξιν μερίζουσι πατέρες παισὶ, παρὰ δὲ κυρίου ἁρμόζεται γυνὴ ἀνδρί, LXX. Domus et divitiæ dantur a parentibus; a Domino autem proprie uxor prudens, Vulg. Comp. Pro_18:22; Gen_24:12-14.
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain House and riches are an inheritance of (from) fathers.…
House and riches are an inheritance of (from) fathers. Any man, worthy or not, may inherit property from progenitors; any man may bargain for a wife, or give a dowry to his son to further his matrimonial prospects. But a prudent wife is from the Lord. She is a special gift of God, a proof of his gracious care for his servants. (see on Pro_18:22) Septuagint, Para de Kuriou armozetai gunh andri , "It is by the Lord that a man is matched with a woman." There is a special providence that watches over wedlock; as we say, "Marriages are made in heaven." But marriages of convenience, marriages made in consideration of worldly means, are a mere earthly arrangement, and claim no particular grace.
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The Biblical Illustrator 1887 · Public Domain And a prudent wife is from the Lord.
Pro_19:14
And a prudent wife is from the Lord.
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Divine direction needed in the choice of a wife
In the choice of a wife, first of all seek Divine direction. About thirty-five years ago, when Martin Farquhar Tupper urged men to prayer before they decided upon matrimonial association, people laughed. And some of them have lived to laugh on the other side of their mouths. The need of Divine direction I argue from the fact that so many men, and some of them strong and wise, have wrecked their lives at this juncture. Witness Samson and the woman of Timnath. Witness Socrates, pecked of the historical Xantippe. Witness Ananias, a liar, who might perhaps have been cured by a truthful spouse, yet marrying as great a liar as himself--Sapphira. Witness John Wesley, one of the best men that ever lived, united to one of the most miserable women, who sat in City Road Chapel making mouths at him while he preached. Witness the once connubial wretchedness of John Ruskin, the great art essayist, and Frederick W. Robertson the great preacher. On this sea of matrimony, where so many have been wrecked, am I not right in advising Divine pilotage? Especially is devout supplication needed because of the fact that society is so full of artificialities that men are deceived as to whom they are marrying, and no one but the Lord knows. After the dressmaker, and the milliner, and the jeweller, and the hair-adjuster, and the dancing-master, and the cosmetic art have completed their work, how is an unsophisticated man to decipher the physiological hieroglyphics, and make accurate judgment of who it is to whom he offers hand and heart? That is what makes so many recreant husbands. They make an honourable marriage contract, but the goods delivered are so different from the sample by which they bargained. They were simply swindled. They mistook Jezebel for Longfellows Evangeline, and Lucretia Borgia for Martha Washington. (T. De Witt Talmage.)
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Paul E. Kretzmann 1924 · Public Domain v. 14. House and riches are the inheritance of…
v. 14. House and riches are the inheritance of fathers, it is possible to get into possession of them by the fact of one’s being an heir; and a prudent wife is from the Lord, a special gift of His kindness.
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