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Proverbs 5:1-23

My son, pay attention to my wisdom. Turn your ear to my understanding,

that you may maintain discretion, that your lips may preserve knowledge.

For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil,

but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, and as sharp as a two-edged sword.

Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol.

She gives no thought to the way of life. Her ways are crooked, and she doesn’t know it.

Now therefore, my sons, listen to me. Don’t depart from the words of my mouth.

Remove your way far from her. Don’t come near the door of her house,

lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;

lest strangers feast on your wealth, and your labors enrich another man’s house.

You will groan at your latter end, when your flesh and your body are consumed,

and say, “How I have hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

neither have I obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor turned my ear to those who instructed me!

I have come to the brink of utter ruin, among the gathered assembly.”

Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.

Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares?

Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you.

Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love.

For why should you, my son, be captivated with an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another?

For the ways of man are before Yahweh’s eyes. He examines all his paths.

The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare him. The cords of his sin hold him firmly.

He will die for lack of instruction. In the greatness of his folly, he will go astray.

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  • WEB World English Bible

    My son, pay attention to my wisdom. Turn your ear to my understanding,

    that you may maintain discretion, that your lips may preserve knowledge.

    For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil,

    but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, and as sharp as a two-edged sword.

    Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol.

    She gives no thought to the way of life. Her ways are crooked, and she doesn’t know it.

    Now therefore, my sons, listen to me. Don’t depart from the words of my mouth.

    Remove your way far from her. Don’t come near the door of her house,

    lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;

    lest strangers feast on your wealth, and your labors enrich another man’s house.

    You will groan at your latter end, when your flesh and your body are consumed,

    and say, “How I have hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

    neither have I obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor turned my ear to those who instructed me!

    I have come to the brink of utter ruin, among the gathered assembly.”

    Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.

    Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares?

    Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you.

    Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

    A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love.

    For why should you, my son, be captivated with an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another?

    For the ways of man are before Yahweh’s eyes. He examines all his paths.

    The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare him. The cords of his sin hold him firmly.

    He will die for lack of instruction. In the greatness of his folly, he will go astray.

  • KJV King James Version

    My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding:

    That thou mayest regard discretion, and that thy lips may keep knowledge.

    For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:

    But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.

    Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

    Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.

    Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

    Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:

    Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:

    Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;

    And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

    And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

    And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

    I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.

    Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.

    Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.

    Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee.

    Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

    Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

    And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

    For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.

    His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.

    He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.

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  • JPS JPS Tanakh (1917)

    My son, attend unto my wisdom; incline thine ear to my understanding;

    That thou mayest preserve discretion, and that thy lips may keep knowledge.

    For the lips of a strange woman drop honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil;

    But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.

    Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on the nether-world;

    Lest she should walk the even path of life, her ways wander, but she knoweth it not.

    Now therefore, O ye children, hearken unto me, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

    Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house;

    Lest thou give thy vigour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel;

    Lest strangers be filled with thy strength, and thy labours be in the house of an alien;

    And thou moan, when thine end cometh, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

    And say: 'How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

    Neither have I hearkened to the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

    I was well nigh in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.'

    Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.

    Let thy springs be dispersed abroad, and courses of water in the streets.

    Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.

    Let thy fountain be blessed; and have joy of the wife of thy youth.

    A lovely hind and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; with her love be thou ravished always.

    Why then wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of an alien?

    For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and He maketh even all his paths.

    His own iniquities shall ensnare the wicked, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sin.

    He shall die for lack of instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall reel.

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  • Psalms 11:4 (v21) Yahweh is in his holy temple. Yahweh is on his throne in heaven. His eyes observe. His eyes examine the children of men.
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  • Proverbs 4:20 (v1) My son, attend to my words. Turn your ear to my sayings.
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  • Jeremiah 23:24 (v21) Can anyone hide himself in secret places so that I can’t see him?” says Yahweh. “Don’t I fill heaven and earth?” says Yahweh.
  • Hosea 7:2 (v21) They don’t consider in their hearts that I remember all their wickedness. Now their own deeds have engulfed them. They are before my face.
  • Matthew 6:13 (v8) Bring us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the Kingdom, the power, and the glory forever. Amen.’
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  • Proverbs 7:21 (v3) With persuasive words, she led him astray. With the flattering of her lips, she seduced him.
  • Proverbs 7:27 (v5) Her house is the way to Sheol, going down to the rooms of death.
  • Proverbs 15:5 (v12) A fool despises his father’s correction, but he who heeds reproof shows prudence.
  • Proverbs 15:7 (v2) The lips of the wise spread knowledge; not so with the heart of fools.
  • Proverbs 16:23 (v2) The heart of the wise instructs his mouth, and adds learning to his lips.
  • Song of Solomon 4:15 (v18) a fountain of gardens, a well of living waters, flowing streams from Lebanon.
  • Jeremiah 17:10 (v21) “I, Yahweh, search the mind. I try the heart, even to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doings.”
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  • Mark 4:23 (v1) If any man has ears to hear, let him hear.”
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  • Psalms 50:17 (v12) since you hate instruction, and throw my words behind you?
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  • Proverbs 2:18-19 (v5) for her house leads down to death, her paths to the departed spirits. None who go to her return again, neither do they attain to the paths…
  • Proverbs 5:15 (v19) Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.
  • Proverbs 5:21 (v6) For the ways of man are before Yahweh’s eyes. He examines all his paths.
  • Proverbs 11:5 (v22) The righteousness of the blameless will direct his way, but the wicked shall fall by his own wickedness.
  • Proverbs 13:18 (v12) Poverty and shame come to him who refuses discipline, but he who heeds correction shall be honored.
  • Proverbs 14:32 (v23) The wicked is brought down in his calamity, but in death, the righteous has a refuge.
  • Song of Solomon 2:17 (v19) Until the day is cool, and the shadows flee away, turn, my beloved, and be like a roe or a young deer on the mountains of Bether.
  • Song of Solomon 4:11 (v2) Your lips, my bride, drip like the honeycomb. Honey and milk are under your tongue. The smell of your garments is like the smell of Lebanon.
  • Song of Solomon 4:12 (v18) My sister, my bride, is a locked up garden; a locked up spring, a sealed fountain.
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  • Jeremiah 44:4 (v12) However I sent to you all my servants the prophets, rising up early and sending them, saying, “Oh, don’t do this abominable thing that I…
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  • John 3:19-20 (v12) This is the judgment, that the light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the light; for their works were evil.…
  • 1 Corinthians 10:6-8 (v14) Now these things were our examples, to the intent we should not lust after evil things, as they also lusted. Don’t be idolaters, as some of…
  • 1 Thessalonians 4:8 (v13) Therefore he who rejects this doesn’t reject man, but God, who has also given his Holy Spirit to you.
  • Hebrews 4:12 (v4) For the word of God is living and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing of soul and spirit, of both…
  • James 1:19 (v1) So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger;
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  • 2 Chronicles 25:16 (v12) As he talked with him, the king said to him, “Have we made you one of the king’s counselors? Stop! Why should you be struck down?” Then the…
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  • Nehemiah 13:26 (v9) Didn’t Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? Yet among many nations there was no king like him, and he was loved by his God, and God…

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Geneva Bible translators 1599 · Public Domain On vv1, 3, 5, 6, 9, 10, 14, 15, 17, 18, 20, 21, 23 Or, understanding.

Or, understanding.

Geneva Bible (1599) marginal notes — public domain.

John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv1–23 Pro 5:1 My son, attend unto my wisdom, [and]…
Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On vv2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23 Regard, or, keep, i.e. hold fast, as it is…
Matthew Henry 1710 · Public Domain On vv1, 15 Here we have,
John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv1–23 My son, attend unto my wisdom,.... Not the wisdom…
John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain On vv1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 9, 14, 15, 16, 18, 19, 22, 23 A farther exhortation to wisdom, ver. 1, 2. A…
Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain On vv1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 21, 22, 23 Farther exhortations to acquire wisdom, 1, 2.
Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain On vv1, 3, 8, 15, 16, 18, 19, 20, 22 Pro 5:1-2. My son, attend unto my wisdom —…
Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain On vv1, 2, 3, 4, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 16, 19, 20, 21, 23 The formula of a new counsel, introducing another warning…
Charles Bridges 1846 · Public Domain On vv1, 15, 20 PONDER this chapter — ye that know not the…
Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On vv2, 4, 6, 9, 10, 11, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 22 Thoughts. Or wisdom; and act with discretion. --- Mind,…
Lange's Commentary on the Holy Scriptures 1864 · Public Domain On v1 8. Warning against intercourse with wanton women, and against…
Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On vv2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 19, 21, 22, 23 regard--or, "observe."
Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On vv1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18, 19, 20, 21, 23 EXHORTATIONS TO CHASTITY, Pro_5:1-14.
The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On vv1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10, 11, 14, 15, 16, 19, 21, 23 Tenth Address. Chap. 5. Pro_5:1-23
Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 19, 21, 22, 23 (3) Her mouth is smoother than oil.—The experience of…
The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On vv1–23 Vers. 1-23. Eighth admonitory discourse. Warning against adultery, and…
The Biblical Illustrator 1887 · Public Domain On vv1, 2, 3, 6, 9, 11, 12, 13, 15, 16, 17, 21, 22, 23 My son, attend unto my wisdom.
The Expositor's Bible 1887 · Public Domain On v22 "His own iniquities shall take the wicked, And he…
The Preacher's Complete Homiletical Commentary 1892 · Public Domain On vv1, 21 ILLUSTRATION OF Pro_5:19
Alexander MacLaren 1905 · Public Domain On v22
J. R. Dummelow 1909 · Public Domain On v1 Unholy Passion. Hallowed Love
C. I. Scofield 1917 · Public Domain On v5 Heb. "Sheol," (See Scofield "Hab 2:5")
Arno C. Gaebelein 1922 · Public Domain On v1 1. Shun the strange woman and sinful passion (Pro…
Paul E. Kretzmann 1924 · Public Domain On vv1, 15 Warning against Wantonness
unfoldingWord translationNotes 2017 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv1, 3, 5, 7, 9, 11, 13, 15, 18, 20, 22 General Information:
Tyndale Open Study Notes 2022 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv1, 3, 5, 9, 11, 15, 19, 21, 22, 23 5:1-23 These instructions on embracing one’s wife and avoiding…
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