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Proverbs 5:3-20

For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil,

but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, and as sharp as a two-edged sword.

Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol.

She gives no thought to the way of life. Her ways are crooked, and she doesn’t know it.

Now therefore, my sons, listen to me. Don’t depart from the words of my mouth.

Remove your way far from her. Don’t come near the door of her house,

lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;

lest strangers feast on your wealth, and your labors enrich another man’s house.

You will groan at your latter end, when your flesh and your body are consumed,

and say, “How I have hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

neither have I obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor turned my ear to those who instructed me!

I have come to the brink of utter ruin, among the gathered assembly.”

Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.

Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares?

Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you.

Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love.

For why should you, my son, be captivated with an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another?

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  • WEB World English Bible

    For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil,

    but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, and as sharp as a two-edged sword.

    Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol.

    She gives no thought to the way of life. Her ways are crooked, and she doesn’t know it.

    Now therefore, my sons, listen to me. Don’t depart from the words of my mouth.

    Remove your way far from her. Don’t come near the door of her house,

    lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;

    lest strangers feast on your wealth, and your labors enrich another man’s house.

    You will groan at your latter end, when your flesh and your body are consumed,

    and say, “How I have hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

    neither have I obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor turned my ear to those who instructed me!

    I have come to the brink of utter ruin, among the gathered assembly.”

    Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.

    Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares?

    Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you.

    Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

    A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love.

    For why should you, my son, be captivated with an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another?

  • KJV King James Version

    For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:

    But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.

    Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

    Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.

    Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

    Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:

    Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:

    Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;

    And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

    And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

    And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

    I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.

    Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.

    Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.

    Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee.

    Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

    Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

    And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

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  • JPS JPS Tanakh (1917)

    For the lips of a strange woman drop honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil;

    But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.

    Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on the nether-world;

    Lest she should walk the even path of life, her ways wander, but she knoweth it not.

    Now therefore, O ye children, hearken unto me, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

    Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house;

    Lest thou give thy vigour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel;

    Lest strangers be filled with thy strength, and thy labours be in the house of an alien;

    And thou moan, when thine end cometh, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

    And say: 'How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

    Neither have I hearkened to the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

    I was well nigh in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.'

    Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.

    Let thy springs be dispersed abroad, and courses of water in the streets.

    Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.

    Let thy fountain be blessed; and have joy of the wife of thy youth.

    A lovely hind and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; with her love be thou ravished always.

    Why then wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of an alien?

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Cross-references (115)

  • Ecclesiastes 9:9 (v18) Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your life of vanity, which he has given you under the sun, all your days of…
  • Malachi 2:14-15 (v18) Yet you say, ‘Why?’ Because Yahweh has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously,…
  • Proverbs 2:16 (v3) to deliver you from the strange woman, even from the foreigner who flatters with her words,
  • 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 (v15) But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband give his wife…
  • Proverbs 7:25 (v8) Don’t let your heart turn to her ways. Don’t go astray in her paths,
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  • Ephesians 5:11 (v8) Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them.
  • Hebrews 13:4 (vv11, 15) Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
  • Proverbs 12:1 (v12) Whoever loves correction loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.
  • Ecclesiastes 7:26 (v4) I find more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and traps, whose hands are chains. Whoever pleases God shall escape from her;…
  • Psalms 128:3 (v16) Your wife will be as a fruitful vine in the innermost parts of your house, your children like olive plants around your table.
  • Proverbs 4:15 (v8) Avoid it, and don’t pass by it. Turn from it, and pass on.
  • Proverbs 13:20 (v14) One who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.
  • Song of Solomon 7:3 (v19) Your two breasts are like two fawns, that are twins of a roe.
  • Matthew 6:13 (v8) Bring us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For yours is the Kingdom, the power, and the glory forever. Amen.’
  • Proverbs 6:24 (vv3, 20) to keep you from the immoral woman, from the flattery of the wayward wife’s tongue.
  • Proverbs 5:18-19 (v15) Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times.…
  • Proverbs 6:27-28 (v8) Can a man scoop fire into his lap, and his clothes not be burned? Or can one walk on hot coals, and his feet not be scorched?
  • Song of Solomon 2:9 (v19) My beloved is like a roe or a young deer. Behold, he stands behind our wall! He looks in at the windows. He glances through the lattice.
  • Song of Solomon 4:5 (v19) Your two breasts are like two fawns that are twins of a roe, which feed among the lilies.
  • Song of Solomon 8:14 (v19) Come away, my beloved! Be like a gazelle or a young stag on the mountains of spices!
  • Romans 6:21 (v11) What fruit then did you have at that time in the things of which you are now ashamed? For the end of those things is death.
  • Psalms 55:21 (vv3–4) His mouth was smooth as butter, but his heart was war. His words were softer than oil, yet they were drawn swords.
  • Proverbs 7:5 (vv3, 20) that they may keep you from the strange woman, from the foreigner who flatters with her words.
  • Psalms 57:4 (v4) My soul is among lions. I lie among those who are set on fire, even the sons of men, whose teeth are spears and arrows, and their tongue a…
  • Psalms 127:3 (v16) Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward.
  • Proverbs 1:7 (v12) The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of knowledge; but the foolish despise wisdom and instruction.
  • Proverbs 1:22 (v12) “How long, you simple ones, will you love simplicity? How long will mockers delight themselves in mockery, and fools hate knowledge?
  • Proverbs 1:25 (v12) but you have ignored all my counsel, and wanted none of my reproof;
  • Proverbs 4:1 (v7) Listen, sons, to a father’s instruction. Pay attention and know understanding;
  • Proverbs 4:26 (v6) Make the path of your feet level. Let all of your ways be established.
  • Proverbs 7:21 (v3) With persuasive words, she led him astray. With the flattering of her lips, she seduced him.
  • Proverbs 7:27 (v5) Her house is the way to Sheol, going down to the rooms of death.
  • Proverbs 15:5 (v12) A fool despises his father’s correction, but he who heeds reproof shows prudence.
  • Song of Solomon 4:15 (v18) a fountain of gardens, a well of living waters, flowing streams from Lebanon.
  • Revelation 22:15 (v11) Outside are the dogs, the sorcerers, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters, and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.
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  • Deuteronomy 33:28 (v16) Israel dwells in safety, the fountain of Jacob alone, In a land of grain and new wine. Yes, his heavens drop down dew.
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  • Psalms 16:11 (v6) You will show me the path of life. In your presence is fullness of joy. In your right hand there are pleasures forever more.
  • Psalms 50:17 (v12) since you hate instruction, and throw my words behind you?
  • Psalms 68:26 (v16) “Bless God in the congregations, even the Lord in the assembly of Israel!”
  • Proverbs 2:18-19 (v5) for her house leads down to death, her paths to the departed spirits. None who go to her return again, neither do they attain to the paths…
  • Proverbs 5:15 (v19) Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.
  • Proverbs 5:21 (v6) For the ways of man are before Yahweh’s eyes. He examines all his paths.
  • Proverbs 13:18 (v12) Poverty and shame come to him who refuses discipline, but he who heeds correction shall be honored.
  • Song of Solomon 2:17 (v19) Until the day is cool, and the shadows flee away, turn, my beloved, and be like a roe or a young deer on the mountains of Bether.
  • Song of Solomon 4:12 (v18) My sister, my bride, is a locked up garden; a locked up spring, a sealed fountain.
  • Isaiah 48:21 (v16) They didn’t thirst when he led them through the deserts. He caused the waters to flow out of the rock for them. He also split the rock and…
  • Jeremiah 44:4 (v12) However I sent to you all my servants the prophets, rising up early and sending them, saying, “Oh, don’t do this abominable thing that I…
  • Zechariah 1:4-6 (v12) Don’t you be like your fathers, to whom the former prophets proclaimed, saying: Yahweh of Armies says, ‘Return now from your evil ways, and…
  • John 3:19-20 (v12) This is the judgment, that the light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the light; for their works were evil.…
  • 1 Corinthians 10:6-8 (v14) Now these things were our examples, to the intent we should not lust after evil things, as they also lusted. Don’t be idolaters, as some of…
  • 1 Thessalonians 4:8 (v13) Therefore he who rejects this doesn’t reject man, but God, who has also given his Holy Spirit to you.
  • Hebrews 4:12 (v4) For the word of God is living and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing of soul and spirit, of both…
  • 2 Peter 2:10-18 (v14) but chiefly those who walk after the flesh in the lust of defilement and despise authority. Daring, self-willed, they are not afraid to…
  • Genesis 19:9 (v12) They said, “Stand back!” Then they said, “This one fellow came in to live as a foreigner, and he appoints himself a judge. Now we will deal…
  • Numbers 5:27 (v11) When he has made her drink the water, then it shall happen, if she is defiled and has committed a trespass against her husband, that the…
  • Numbers 25:1-6 (v14) Israel stayed in Shittim; and the people began to play the prostitute with the daughters of Moab; for they called the people to the…
  • 2 Chronicles 24:20-22 (v12) The Spirit of God came on Zechariah the son of Jehoiada the priest; and he stood above the people, and said to them, “God says, ‘Why do you…
  • 2 Chronicles 25:16 (v12) As he talked with him, the king said to him, “Have we made you one of the king’s counselors? Stop! Why should you be struck down?” Then the…
  • 2 Chronicles 33:10-11 (v12) Yahweh spoke to Manasseh, and to his people; but they didn’t listen. Therefore Yahweh brought on them the captains of the army of the king…
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  • Nehemiah 13:26 (v9) Didn’t Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? Yet among many nations there was no king like him, and he was loved by his God, and God…
  • Psalms 73:22 (v12) I was so senseless and ignorant. I was a brute beast before you.
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  • Proverbs 6:35 (v10) He won’t regard any ransom, neither will he rest content, though you give many gifts.
  • Proverbs 7:24 (v7) Now therefore, sons, listen to me. Pay attention to the words of my mouth.
  • Proverbs 9:18 (v4) But he doesn’t know that the departed spirits are there, that her guests are in the depths of Sheol.
  • Proverbs 22:17-21 (v7) Turn your ear, and listen to the words of the wise. Apply your heart to my teaching. For it is a pleasant thing if you keep them within…
  • Proverbs 30:20 (v6) “So is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, and says, ‘I have done nothing wrong.’
  • Hosea 4:11-14 (v14) Prostitution, wine, and new wine take away understanding. My people consult with their wooden idol, and answer to a stick of wood. Indeed…
  • Hosea 7:9 (v10) Strangers have devoured his strength, and he doesn’t realize it. Indeed, gray hairs are here and there on him, and he doesn’t realize it.
  • Zechariah 7:11-14 (v12) But they refused to listen, and turned their backs, and stopped their ears, that they might not hear. Yes, they made their hearts as hard…
  • Luke 15:18 (v13) I will get up and go to my father, and will tell him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight.
  • Hebrews 13:7 (v13) Remember your leaders, men who spoke to you the word of God, and considering the results of their conduct, imitate their faith.
  • Revelation 17:2-6 (v3) with whom the kings of the earth committed sexual immorality. Those who dwell in the earth were made drunken with the wine of her sexual…
  • Proverbs 23:27-28 (vv4, 20) For a prostitute is a deep pit; and a wayward wife is a narrow well. Yes, she lies in wait like a robber, and increases the unfaithful…
  • Deuteronomy 32:29 (v11) Oh that they were wise, that they understood this, that they would consider their latter end!
  • Judges 16:4-6 (v4) It came to pass afterward that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. The lords of the Philistines came up to her…
  • Judges 16:15-21 (v4) She said to him, “How can you say, ‘I love you,’ when your heart is not with me? You have mocked me these three times, and have not told me…
  • 1 Kings 11:1 (v20) Now king Solomon loved many foreign women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians,…
  • Proverbs 1:29-30 (v12) because they hated knowledge, and didn’t choose the fear of Yahweh. They wanted none of my counsel. They despised all my reproof.
  • Proverbs 3:21 (v7) My son, let them not depart from your eyes. Keep sound wisdom and discretion:
  • Proverbs 4:21 (v7) Let them not depart from your eyes. Keep them in the center of your heart.
  • Proverbs 6:23 (v12) For the commandment is a lamp, and the law is light. Reproofs of instruction are the way of life,
  • Proverbs 6:24-35 (v4) to keep you from the immoral woman, from the flattery of the wayward wife’s tongue. Don’t lust after her beauty in your heart, neither let…
  • Proverbs 7:10-21 (v6) Behold, there a woman met him with the attire of a prostitute, and with crafty intent. She is loud and defiant. Her feet don’t stay in her…
  • Proverbs 7:22-23 (v4) He followed her immediately, as an ox goes to the slaughter, as a fool stepping into a noose. Until an arrow strikes through his liver, as…
  • Proverbs 7:23 (v11) Until an arrow strikes through his liver, as a bird hurries to the snare, and doesn’t know that it will cost his life.
  • Proverbs 11:19 (v6) He who is truly righteous gets life. He who pursues evil gets death.
  • Proverbs 22:14 (v20) The mouth of an adulteress is a deep pit. He who is under Yahweh’s wrath will fall into it.
  • Proverbs 23:33 (v20) Your eyes will see strange things, and your mind will imagine confusing things.
  • Proverbs 31:3 (v10) Don’t give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
  • Jeremiah 5:31 (v11) The prophets prophesy falsely, and the priests rule by their own authority; and my people love to have it so. What will you do in the end…
  • Hosea 4:13-14 (v9) They sacrifice on the tops of the mountains, and burn incense on the hills, under oaks and poplars and terebinths, because its shade is…
  • 1 Corinthians 5:4-5 (v11) In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, you being gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, are to deliver…
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 (v13) But we beg you, brothers, to know those who labor among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you, and to respect and honor them…
  • 2 Thessalonians 2:9-10 (v6) even he whose coming is according to the working of Satan with all power and signs and lying wonders, and with all deception of wickedness…

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Geneva Bible translators 1599 · Public Domain On vv3, 5, 6, 9, 10, 14, 15, 17, 18, 20 That is, an harlot which giveth herself to another…

That is, an harlot which giveth herself to another than to her husband.

By oil and honey he meaneth flattering and crafty enticements.

Geneva Bible (1599) marginal notes — public domain.

John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain On vv3–20 Pro 5:3 For the lips of a strange woman…
Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 It concerns thee to get and to use discretion,…
Matthew Henry 1710 · Public Domain On v15 Solomon, having shown the great evil that there is…
John Gill 1763 · Public Domain On vv3–20 For the lips of a strange woman drop as…
John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 9, 14, 15, 16, 18, 19 The lips - It concerns thee to get and…
Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 Verse 3. The lips of a strange woman] One…
Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain On vv3, 8, 15, 16, 18, 19, 20 Pro 5:3-6. For the lips of a strange woman,…
Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 16, 19, 20 Smoother than oil - The same comparison is used…
Charles Bridges 1846 · Public Domain On vv15, 20 Desire after forbidden enjoyments naturally springs from dissatisfaction with…
Haydock's Catholic Bible Commentary 1859 · Public Domain On vv4, 6, 9, 10, 11, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 Sword. "It is a crime even to hearken." (St.…
Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 19 (Compare Pro 2:16). Her enticing promises are deceitful.
Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18, 19, 20 3. Strange woman — See note on Pro_2:16. The…
The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10, 11, 14, 15, 16, 19 3. strange woman] See Pro_2:16, note.
Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain On vv3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 19 (3) Her mouth is smoother than oil.—The experience of…
The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain On vv3–20 The teacher enters upon the subject of his warning,…
The Biblical Illustrator 1887 · Public Domain On vv3, 6, 9, 11, 12, 13, 15, 16, 17 For the lips of a strange woman drop as…
C. I. Scofield 1917 · Public Domain On v5 Heb. "Sheol," (See Scofield "Hab 2:5")
Paul E. Kretzmann 1924 · Public Domain On v15 Chastity Contrasted with Unchastity
unfoldingWord translationNotes 2017 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv3, 5, 7, 9, 11, 13, 15, 18, 20 the lips of an adulteress drip with honey
Tyndale Open Study Notes 2022 · CC BY-SA 4.0 On vv3, 5, 9, 11, 15, 19 5:3-4 The lips of the immoral woman seem sweet…
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