Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice.
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Let all bitternesse, and anger, and wrath, crying, and euill speaking be put away from you, with all maliciousnesse.
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- Colossians 3:8 but now you also put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth.
- Ecclesiastes 7:9 Don’t be hasty in your spirit to be angry, for anger rests in the bosom of fools.
- Titus 3:2-3 to speak evil of no one, not to be contentious, to be gentle, showing all humility toward all men. For we were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another.
- 1 Peter 2:1 Putting away therefore all wickedness, all deceit, hypocrisies, envies, and all evil speaking,
- James 1:19 So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger;
- Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them.
- James 3:14–4:2 But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, don’t boast and don’t lie against the truth. This wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly, sensual, and demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members? You lust, and don’t have. You murder and covet, and can’t obtain. You fight and make war. You don’t have, because you don’t ask.
- Ephesians 4:26 “Be angry, and don’t sin.” Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath,
- 1 John 3:12 unlike Cain, who was of the evil one, and killed his brother. Why did he kill him? Because his deeds were evil, and his brother’s righteous.
- Leviticus 19:16-18 “ ‘You shall not go around as a slanderer among your people. “ ‘You shall not endanger the life of your neighbor. I am Yahweh. “ ‘You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him. “ ‘You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people; but you shall love your neighbor as yourself. I am Yahweh.
- Psalms 101:5 I will silence whoever secretly slanders his neighbor. I won’t tolerate one who is arrogant and conceited.
- Proverbs 26:20 For lack of wood a fire goes out. Without gossip, a quarrel dies down.
- Proverbs 29:22 An angry man stirs up strife, and a wrathful man abounds in sin.
- 1 Corinthians 14:20 Brothers, don’t be children in thoughts, yet in malice be babies, but in thoughts be mature.
- Proverbs 10:12 Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all wrongs.
- Proverbs 10:18 He who hides hatred has lying lips. He who utters a slander is a fool.
- Proverbs 14:17 He who is quick to become angry will commit folly, and a crafty man is hated.
- Romans 1:29-30 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, malice; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil habits, secret slanderers, backbiters, hateful to God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
- Titus 1:7 For the overseer must be blameless, as God’s steward, not self-pleasing, not easily angered, not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for dishonest gain;
- James 4:11 Don’t speak against one another, brothers. He who speaks against a brother and judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
- Proverbs 25:23 The north wind produces rain; so a backbiting tongue brings an angry face.
- Proverbs 26:24-25 A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but he harbors evil in his heart. When his speech is charming, don’t believe him, for there are seven abominations in his heart.
- 2 Corinthians 12:20 For I am afraid that by any means, when I come, I might find you not the way I want to, and that I might be found by you as you don’t desire, that by any means there would be strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, whisperings, proud thoughts, or riots,
- Genesis 4:8 Cain said to Abel, his brother, “Let’s go into the field.” While they were in the field, Cain rose up against Abel, his brother, and killed him.
- Genesis 27:41 Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing with which his father blessed him. Esau said in his heart, “The days of mourning for my father are at hand. Then I will kill my brother Jacob.”
- Genesis 37:4 His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers, and they hated him, and couldn’t speak peaceably to him.
- 2 Samuel 19:27 He has slandered your servant to my lord the king, but my lord the king is as an angel of God. Therefore do what is good in your eyes.
- Psalms 15:3 he who doesn’t slander with his tongue, nor does evil to his friend, nor casts slurs against his fellow man;
- Psalms 50:20 You sit and speak against your brother. You slander your own mother’s son.
- Psalms 64:3 who sharpen their tongue like a sword, and aim their arrows, deadly words,
- Psalms 140:11 An evil speaker won’t be established in the earth. Evil will hunt the violent man to overthrow him.
- Proverbs 6:19 a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers.
- Proverbs 18:8 The words of a gossip are like dainty morsels: they go down into a person’s innermost parts.
- Romans 3:14 “Their mouth is full of cursing and bitterness.”
- 1 Corinthians 5:8 Therefore let’s keep the feast, not with old yeast, neither with the yeast of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.
- Galatians 5:20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies,
- 1 Timothy 3:11 Their wives in the same way must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, and faithful in all things.
- 1 Timothy 5:13 Besides, they also learn to be idle, going about from house to house. Not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not.
- 1 Timothy 6:4-5 he is conceited, knowing nothing, but obsessed with arguments, disputes, and word battles, from which come envy, strife, insulting, evil suspicions, constant friction of people of corrupt minds and destitute of the truth, who suppose that godliness is a means of gain. Withdraw yourself from such.
- Genesis 37:21 Reuben heard it, and delivered him out of their hand, and said, “Let’s not take his life.”
- 2 Samuel 13:22 Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.
- 2 Samuel 19:43–20:2 The men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, “We have ten parts in the king, and we have also more claim to David than you. Why then did you despise us, that our advice should not be first had in bringing back our king?” The words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel. There happened to be there a wicked fellow, whose name was Sheba, the son of Bichri, a Benjamite; and he blew the trumpet, and said, “We have no portion in David, neither have we inheritance in the son of Jesse. Every man to his tents, Israel!” So all the men of Israel went up from following David, and followed Sheba the son of Bichri; but the men of Judah joined with their king, from the Jordan even to Jerusalem.
- Proverbs 19:12 The king’s wrath is like the roaring of a lion, but his favor is like dew on the grass.
- Proverbs 29:9 If a wise man goes to court with a foolish man, the fool rages or scoffs, and there is no peace.
- Jeremiah 6:28 They are all grievous rebels, going around to slander. They are bronze and iron. All of them deal corruptly.
- Acts 19:28-29 When they heard this they were filled with anger, and cried out, saying, “Great is Artemis of the Ephesians!” The whole city was filled with confusion, and they rushed with one accord into the theater, having seized Gaius and Aristarchus, men of Macedonia, Paul’s companions in travel.
- Acts 21:30 All the city was moved and the people ran together. They seized Paul and dragged him out of the temple. Immediately the doors were shut.
- Acts 22:22-23 They listened to him until he said that; then they lifted up their voice and said, “Rid the earth of this fellow, for he isn’t fit to live!” As they cried out, threw off their cloaks, and threw dust into the air,
- 1 Timothy 3:3 not a drinker, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
- 2 Timothy 2:23 But refuse foolish and ignorant questionings, knowing that they generate strife.
- Titus 2:3 and that older women likewise be reverent in behavior, not slanderers nor enslaved to much wine, teachers of that which is good,
- 2 Peter 2:10-11 but chiefly those who walk after the flesh in the lust of defilement and despise authority. Daring, self-willed, they are not afraid to speak evil of dignitaries; whereas angels, though greater in might and power, don’t bring a railing judgment against them before the Lord.
- 1 John 3:15 Whoever hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life remaining in him.
- Jude 1:8-10 Yet in the same way, these also in their dreaming defile the flesh, despise authority, and slander celestial beings. But Michael, the archangel, when contending with the devil and arguing about the body of Moses, dared not bring against him an abusive condemnation, but said, “May the Lord rebuke you!” But these speak evil of whatever things they don’t know. They are destroyed in these things that they understand naturally, like the creatures without reason.
- Revelation 12:10 I heard a loud voice in heaven, saying, “Now the salvation, the power, and the Kingdom of our God, and the authority of his Christ has come; for the accuser of our brothers has been thrown down, who accuses them before our God day and night.
- Jeremiah 9:4 “Everyone beware of his neighbor, and don’t trust in any brother; for every brother will utterly supplant, and every neighbor will go around like a slanderer.
- 2 Timothy 3:3 without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, not lovers of good,
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John Calvin 1540 · Public Domain 31. Let all bitterness. He again condemns anger; but,…
31. Let all bitterness. He again condemns anger; but, on the present occasion, views in connection with it those offenses by which it is usually accompanied, such as noisy disputes and reproaches. Between wrath and anger (Θυμὸν καὶ ὀργὴν) there is little difference, except that the former denotes the power, and the latter the act; but here, the only difference is, that anger is a more sudden attack. The correction of all the rest will be greatly aided by the removal of malice. By this term he expresses that depravity of mind which is opposed to humanity and justice, and which is usually called malignity.
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John Trapp 1656 · Public Domain 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and…
31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
Ver. 31. Let all bitterness, &c.] If the godly man suddenly fall into hitter words, it maketh the Holy Ghost stir within him.
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And clamour and evil speaking] These are as smoke to the eyes, and make the spirit ready to loathe and leave his lodging.
Be put away from you] When any lust ariseth, pray it down presently (saith one); for otherwise we are endangered by yielding to grieve, by grieving to resist, by resisting to quench, by quenching, maliciously to oppose the Spirit. Sin hath no bounds, but those which the Spirit puts, whom therefore we should not grieve.
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Matthew Poole 1685 · Public Domain Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger; these all…
Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger; these all seem to relate to the inward affection, as the two following to the effects of it in the words.
Bitterness may imply a secret lurking displeasure at another, or rather a confirmed and permanent one;
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wrath, the first boiling up of the passion, which affects the body in the commotion of the blood and spirits; and
anger, a greater height and paroxysm of the same passion, or an eager desire of revenge: see Col 3:8.
And clamour; such inordinate loudness as men in anger are wont to break out into in their words.
And evil speaking; either with respect to God or man, though the latter seems particularly meant here; railing, reviling, reproaching, &c., the ordinary effects of immoderate anger.
With all malice; maliciousness, or malignity of heart, in opposition to kindness and tenderness, Eph 4:32; see Rom 1:29; 1Co 5:8; 14:20; Tit 3:3.
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William Burkitt 1703 · Public Domain Our apostle had exhorted, in the former verse, not…
Our apostle had exhorted, in the former verse, not to grieve the Holy Spirit of God; in the next verse, he acquaints us with the particular sins that would afflict and grieve him: namely,
Bitterness, that is, a secret grudge and a smothered displeasure against our brother:
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Wrath, or an impetuous fierceness of spirit, upon some real or apprehended injury:
Anger, an eager desire of revenge:
Clamour, loud threatenings, or reviling language:
Evilspeaking, either of others, or to others:
Malice, a rooted enmity, the rage of the devil; and renders a man as like the devil as any sin on this side hell.
All these sins do exceedingly grieve the Holy Spirit; they make him both loathe and leave his lodgings.
In the last verse, as a proper remedy against all the foregoing sins, exhorts them to mutual kindness: Be ye kind one towards another; that is, of a sweet and loving disposition, affable and courteous to each other; neither carrying it loftily or morosely, but affably and humbly; tenderhearted, having a compassionate sense of the miseries and infirmities of one another; forgiving one another whatever has been matter of provocation in each other, according to the example of God, who for Christ’s sake has forgiven us.
Learn hence, 1. That Christians are obliged by the laws of their holy religion, to forbear and forgive one another.
Learn, 2. That they are obliged to forgive one another, as God, for Christ’s sake, hath forgiven them. As God forgives us universally, freely, heartily, and sincerely, and when he has power in his hand to revenge; so should we in like manner forgive one another, even as God for Christ’s sake, hath forgiven us.
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John Wesley 1765 · Public Domain Let all bitterness - The height of settled anger,…
Let all bitterness - The height of settled anger, opposite to kindness, ver. 32. And wrath - Lasting displeasure toward the ignorant, and them that are out of the way, opposite to tenderheartedness. And anger - The very first risings of disgust at those that injure you, opposite to forgiving one another. And clamour - Or bawling. "I am not angry," says one; "but it is my way to speak so." Then unlearn that way: it is the way to hell. And evil speaking - Be it in ever so mild and soft a tone, or with ever such professions of kindness. Here is a beautiful retrogradation, beginning with the highest, and descending to the lowest, degree of the want of love.
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Adam Clarke 1810 · Public Domain Verse 31. Let all bitterness] πασα πικρια. It is…
Verse 31. Let all bitterness] πασα πικρια. It is astonishing that any who profess the Christian name should indulge bitterness of spirit. Those who are censorious, who are unmerciful to the failings of others, who have fixed a certain standard by which they measure all persons in all circumstances, and unchristian every one that does not come up to this standard, these have the bitterness against which the apostle speaks. In the last century there was a compound medicine, made up from a variety of drastic acrid drugs and ardent spirits, which was called Hiera Picra, ιερα πικρα, the holy bitter; this medicine was administered in a multitude of cases, where it did immense evil, and perhaps in scarcely any case did it do good. It has ever appeared to me to furnish a proper epithet for the disposition mentioned above, the holy bitter; for the religiously censorious act under the pretence of superior sanctity. I have known such persons do much evil in a Christian society, but never knew an instance of their doing any good.
And wrath] θυμος is more properly anger, which may be considered the commencement of the passion.
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Anger] οργν is more properly wrath-the passion carried to its highest pitch, accompanied with injurious words and outrageous acts, some of which are immediately specified.
And clamour] κραυγη Loud and obstreperous speaking, brawling, railing, boisterous talk, often the offspring of wrath; all of which are highly unbecoming the meek, loving, quiet, sedate mind of Christ and his followers.
And evil speaking] βλασφημια. Blasphemy; that is, injurious speaking-words which tend to hurt those of whom or against whom they are spoken.
With all malice] κακια. All malignity; as anger produces wrath, and wrath clamour, so all together produce malice; that is, settled, sullen, fell wrath, which is always looking out for opportunities to revenge itself by the destruction of the object of its indignation. No state of society can be even tolerable where these prevail; and, if eternity were out of the question, it is of the utmost consequence to have these banished from time.
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Joseph Benson 1811 · Public Domain Eph 4:31-32. Let all bitterness — Of disposition or…
Eph 4:31-32. Let all bitterness — Of disposition or expression, or, as some render the word, all peevishness; and wrath — Or indignation, as θυμος seems here to signify; that is, anger mingled with contempt or disgust; the next expression in the original, οργη, rather signifying wrath, or lasting displeasure; and clamour — Loud threatenings, brawlings, or other intemperate speeches, whereby inward anger vents itself. And evil speaking — Mentioning the faults of absent persons, be it in ever so mild and soft a tone, or with ever such professions of kindness; with all malice — Every unkind disposition, every temper contrary to love. Here appears to be a beautiful retrogradation, beginning with the highest and descending to the lowest degree of the want of love. Or perhaps, as Dr. Doddridge observes, “it was not the apostle’s intention that a different idea should be annexed to each different word here used: Possibly it might only be his intention, in amassing so many almost synonymous expressions together, to show that he would have them to be on their guard against all the malevolent passions, and those outrages of speech and expression which they tend to produce. And the like remark may be applied to many other passages of Scripture, and particularly to those where all kinds of lewdness are forbidden in such a variety of phrase and language.” And be ye kind one to another — Courteous and obliging in your daily deportment; tender-hearted — Greek, ευσπλαγχνοι, tenderly compassionate; especially toward those that are in any affliction or distress; forgiving one another the injuries done, or supposed to be done you; even as God — Showing himself kind and tender-hearted in the highest degree; for Christ’s sake — Through his atonement and intercession, by which God could exercise his mercy to you in a way consistent with his holiness and justice; hath forgiven you — Such inexcusable and heinous injuries and affronts, as are infinitely greater than any which it is possible for you to receive from your fellow-creatures.
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Albert Barnes 1834 · Public Domain Let all bitterness - see the notes on Eph…
Let all bitterness - see the notes on Eph 4:2.
And wrath - The word here does not differ essentially from anger.
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Anger - see the note on Eph 4:26. All cherished, unreasonable anger.
And clamour - Noise, disorder, high words; such as men use in a brawl, or when they are excited. Christians are to be calm and serious. Harsh contentions and strifes; hoarse brawls and tumults, are to be unknown among them.
And evil-speaking - Slander, backbiting, angry expressions, tale-bearing, reproaches, etc.
With all malice - Rather, “with all evil” - κακίᾳ kakia. Every kind and sort of evil is to be put away, and you are to manifest only that which is good.
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Robert Jamieson, A. R. Fausset & David Brown 1871 · Public Domain bitterness--both of spirit and of speech: opposed to "kind."
bitterness--both of spirit and of speech: opposed to "kind."
wrath--passion for a time: opposed to "tender-hearted." Whence BENGEL translates for "wrath," harshness.
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anger--lasting resentment: opposed to "forgiving one another."
clamour--compared by CHRYSOSTOM to a horse carrying anger for its rider: "Bridle the horse, and you dismount its rider." "Bitterness" begets "wrath"; "wrath," "anger"; "anger," "clamor"; and "clamor," the more chronic "evil-speaking," slander, insinuations, and surmises of evil. "Malice" is the secret root of all: "fires fed within, and not appearing to by-standers from without, are the most formidable" [CHRYSOSTOM].
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Daniel D. Whedon 1874 · Public Domain 31. Bitterness—The climax of wrathful terms in this verse,…
31. Bitterness—The climax of wrathful terms in this verse, rising to clamour, sounds like a reminiscence of the uproar of the Ephesian mob. Acts 19.
Bitterness—This is a permanent state of virulent temper, which easily swells up into wrath and then breaks forth in anger. Then may follow outcry or clamour of the individual or the mob. This is the way of a turbulent state of society, ready for tumult.
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All—This climactic rise of violence the Christian in Ephesus must put away. And this is, as Dr. Eadie happily styles it, “a genealogy of bad passions,” each begetting its successor to the end of the fierce chapter.
All—Having their base and fountain in the final κακια, (translated malice,) that is, badness, a full, deep, cherished depravity of nature, deepened by unrestrained indulgence. And this fearful Ephesian picture is an example to avoid, which our apostle will complete by a counter picture for a Christian Church in Ephesus in the following verse.
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The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges 1878 · Public Domain 31. all … all] Observe the uncompromising scope of…
31. all … all] Observe the uncompromising scope of the precept. Revolution in principle was to result in nothing short of revolution in temper and practice.
wrath … anger] The two original words occur together also Rom_2:8; Col_3:8; Rev_16:19; Rev_19:15 (“the wrath of the anger of God”). The word rendered “wrath” denotes rather the acute passion, and the other the chronic. See Trench, Synonyms, § xxxvi.—There is no real contradiction here to Eph_4:26. The aim there was to limit the admission of anger only to the rare cases where it could be present “without sin.” Here the question is not of the exception but of the rule. Personal irascibility, personal feud and quarrel, were to be things past and gone out of Christian life.
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clamour] The violent assertion of rights and wrongs, real or supposed.
evil speaking] Gr. blasphêmia. Our word “blasphemy” is now confined to “evil speaking” against God and Divine things, but the Gr. word includes all kinds of slander and opprobrium. It is used (verb, noun, or adjective) of evil speaking against man, or human things, often in N.T.; e.g. 1Co_4:13 (A. V., “defamed”); 1Co_10:30; Col_3:8; Tit_3:2.
be put away] Or, taken away. The verb is in the aorist imperative, enjoining a decisive act, a definite and total rejection of these phases of evil. Such an act, and the maintenance of its results, would be only possible “in Christ”; but so it could be done. See the parallel passage, Col_3:8, where the precept is as decisive and as inclusive as here.
malice] The Gr. word sometimes bears the sense of “evil,” “ill,” in general; e.g. “the evil” of “the day,” Mat_6:34. But where, as here, it forms one of a list of vices (cp. Rom_1:29; Col_3:8; Tit_3:3; 1Pe_2:1), it tends to mean the bitter and unjust habit of mind which we denote by malice. (See Trench, Synonyms, § xi.) It is here mentioned last, as the deeper and more subtle sin of which those just mentioned are manifestations. Unkindness, in its inmost secret, is to be a thing cast out.
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Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers 1878 · Public Domain (31) Let all bitterness.—There is a similar enumeration in…
(31) Let all bitterness.—There is a similar enumeration in the parallel passage, Col_3:8; and in all such catalogues in St. Paul’s Epistles, while it is vain to seek for formal and elaborate system, there is always profound method and connection of idea. Here the first symptom of the temper forbidden is “bitterness,” or sharpness—a word seldom used, and generally in half-poetical passages (see Act_8:23; Rom_3:14; Heb_12:15)—that is, an acerbity of temper, ready to take offence and break out in anger. The next stage is “wrath and anger,” that is, passionate outburst, and the deeper anger of which it is at once effect and cause. (Comp. Rom_2:8; Col_3:8; Rev_19:15.) In these the smouldering bitterness kindles into flame. The last stage is “clamour and evil speaking”—“clamour” (used in this sense only here) being the loud fury of the first burst of wrath, passing into the more deliberate evil-speaking, as the temper cools down without losing its settled anger.
With all malice.—All are various exhibitions of “malice”—that is, evil mindedness or malignity—the general disposition which is the opposite of goodness, graciousness, and sympathy. (Comp. Rom_1:29; 1Co_5:8; 1Co_14:20; Jas_1:21; 1Pe_2:1.) By the law of human nature they rise out of this temper, and react upon it so as to intensify its bitterness. Both it generally, and they in particular, must be resisted and cast out.
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(3 a) In Eph_4:31 to Eph_5:2, he deals with malignity, as utterly unworthy of the love of God manifested to us in Jesus Christ.
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The Pulpit Commentary 1880 · Public Domain Let all bitterness; not only in speech, but in…
Let all bitterness; not only in speech, but in mind, disposition, habit. And wrath and anger; nearly synonymous, but perhaps" wrath" is equivalent to the tumultuous excited state of mind, out of which comes anger, the settled feeling of dislike and enmity. And clamor and evil-speaking be put away from you; "clamor," equivalent to the loud noise of strife, the excited shouting down of opponents; "evil-speaking," the more deliberate habit of running down their character, exciting an evil feeling against them in the minds of others. With all malice; equivalent to wishing evil, whether in a more pronounced or in a latent and half-conscious form, whether expressing itself in the way of coarse malediction or lurking in a corner of the heart, as an evil spirit of which we should be ashamed; all are rags of the old man, as disgraceful to Christians as literal rags to a man of position; utterly unworthy of the regenerated child of God. Chrysostom, rather fancifully, treats them as a genealogy: "Bitterness bred wrath, wrath anger, anger clamor, clamor evil-speaking, which is railing.
Malicious and revengeful feeling.
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The apostle commands us to put away five forms of it along with the temper out of which they spring.
I BITTERNESS. This points, not to mordant speech merely, but to a sour, irritable, splenetic temperament, which places a man in an attitude of constant antagonism with his fellow-men. It argues want of love and consideration for others. Its effects are
(1) to spoil our own comfort;
(2) to excite the hatred of others;
(3) to destroy our influence for good.
II WRATH. This suggests the fierce mental excitement that springs out of bitterness. It is "a fever in the heart, and a calenture in the head, and a fire in the face, and a sword in the hand, and a fury all over." Wrath is sinful because it springs from want of love, from misunderstanding, and from. (Pro_21:24)
III ANGER. This is a more settled habit of the spirit. There is an anger that is lawful (ver. 26), so far as it proceeds from a lawful cause, is directed to a lawful object, and is guided to a lawful issue. But the anger here is altogether sinful. It is an anger
(1) that is accompanied with hatred;
(2) that breaks out into curses; (Psa_106:33)
(3) that is excited by the wrong done to ourselves rather than by the dishonor done to God;
(4) that is long cherished;
(5) that unfits us for holy duties.
We ought to put it away from us, because
(1) God forbids it; (Col_3:8)
(2) because it disturbs both mind and body;
(3) because it is folly as well as sin; (Pro_14:17, Pro_14:29)
(4) because it may lead to eternal ruin.
IV CLAMOR. This is the cry of strife; the noisy, impetuous brawling, which gives outlet to the dark hostility within.
V EVIL-SPEAKING. This points to the license of speech which wounds the reputation of others. It is an outrage alike upon truth and charity.
VI MALICE. This marks the rooted enmity out of which all the five forms of evil naturally spring. It has been remarked that their genealogical relationship is manifest in the very order of their mention: "Acerbity of temper exciting passion, that passion matured into strong indignation, that indignation throwing itself off in indecent brawling, and that brawling darkening into libel and abuse, a malicious element lying all the while at the basis of these flagrant enormities." We are commanded to put them all away.
1. They find their true place among the works of the flesh. (Gal_5:19-21)
2. They are not only inconsistent with but opposite to the nine graces of the Spirit love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance; and their indulgence in any degree by Christians has the effect of grieving the Spirit.
3. They are inconsistent with that worthy walk which belongs to the vocation with which we are called (ver. 1). T.C.
Vers. 31, 32.
Charity to the undeserving.
I THE NEGATIVE DUTIES. "Let all bitterness, etc., be put away from you." Various influences tempt us to the indulgence of these dark passions.
1. Natural disposition. Some men appear to be born with an acrid and mordant temper, as some plants secrete irritant poisons.
2. Provocation. Anger rouses anger as fire kindles fire. The reference to forgiveness shows that St. Paul is especially condemning outbursts of wrath against people who have treated us maliciously.
3. Evil example. "Clamor and railing" are public offences. When many men concur in pouring wrath on a selected victim it is difficult to stand aside from the current of abuse and recognize the unholiness of it. The admonition may be applied
(1) to public life, that politics may be freed from the degradation of personal spite;
(2) to affairs of religion in condemnation of the odium theologicum, and also of the odium antitheologicum, why should we hate a man because his opinion is not ours?
(3) to social life, since it is better to suffer an injury unavenged than to add a second injury in return.
II THE POSITIVE DUTIES. Christianity is not satisfied with passive meekness. We must not only turn the cheek to the smiter, we must love our enemies a duty of positive feeling and action.
1. General kindness. This would destroy the selfishness that is at the root of all revengeful feelings. He who has injured us is our brother. The ties of our common brotherhood that urge us to love him should be stronger than the provocations of his unkindness that would make us bitter against him.
2. Tenderheartedness. This should make us pity the offender for the shame and guilt he has brought upon himself, and long for reconciliation with him.
3. Forgiveness. The final step for the healing of positive injury is the most necessary, for without it we can have no Divine forgiveness, nor can we truly love our enemy.
III THE GRAND MOTIVE. "Even as God also in Christ forgave you." As we must forgive others before God will forgive us, so when he has forgiven us a stronger reason is added to urge us to forgive those who may in future injure us.
1. The Divine forgiveness is the reason for our forgiveness and kindness to others. The parable of the unforgiving servant reveals the gross inconsistency of an unforgiving spirit in Christian men and women. (Mat_18:23-35) How can we who simply exist because God has forgiven us deny forgiveness to our brethren? If God who is infinitely above us has condescended to forgiveness, shall we stand more strictly on our petty rights? If God has forgiven us our innumerable, great, and awful sins against him, can we be backward in pardoning the much fewer and slighter sins of our fellow-men against us? Forgiven the debt often thousand talents, how have we the face to exact the debt of a hundred pence?
2. The Divine forgiveness is the pattern of our forgiveness. It is
(1) at the greatest cost Christ," through the gift of God"s own Son;
(2) covering all sins, the worst and blackest without exception;
(3) perfect, full, and ungrudging remembering our sins no more, removing them from us as far as the east is from the west, burying them in the sea;
(4) cheerful and generous putting the ring and best robe on the penitent;
(5) free, not earned by sacrifice, penance, or good works. Such should be on our forgiveness of one another. W.F.A.
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Eph_4:31-32
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The temper for the times
I. The extent of the duty enforced. It is not enough to abstain from acts of an unfriendly or hostile nature, but we should ever cherish that mild and amiable disposition which looks upon all men as friends till by their ingratitude or moral delinquency they have shown themselves to be unworthy of our friendship or good esteem.
1. One who is kindly disposed, either by nature or by grace, will be at all times ready to do a good action for another, if it should lie in his power.
2. Kindliness of disposition will be evidenced in all classes by a prevailing tone of mind which indisposes us either to think evil, or to speak evil of our neighbours.
3. We may beneficially carry out the precept of the text, by adopting a kind and courteous tone of language in all the relations of daily life.
II. The precept of the text may further be urged.
1. From the consideration of that precious love which our Saviour exhibited in dying for us.
2. From the remembrance of that supreme mercy and compassion which our heavenly Father manifests, when for Christs sake He freely forgives us all the multiplied sins which we have committed against Him. (F. F. Statham, B. A.)
Remedies for evil speaking
The longer I live the more I feel the importance of adhering to the rules I have laid down for myself in relation to such matters.
1. To hear as little as possible to the prejudice of others.
2. To believe nothing of the kind till I am absolutely forced to it.
3. Never to drink in the spirit of one who circulates an ill report.
4. Always to moderate, as far as I can, the unkindness which is expressed toward others.
5. Always believe that, if the other side were heard, a very different account would be given of the matter.
Defective kindness
The kindness of some is too much like an echo; it returns exactly the counterpart of what it receives, and neither more nor less (Mat_5:46-47). (G. S. Bowes.)
Kindness defined
Kindness is civil behaviour, favourable treatment, or a constant and habitual practice of friendly offices and benevolent actions. (C. Buck.)
It may be defined as lighting our neighbours candle by our own, by which we lose nothing and impart something. (Anon.)
Different kinds of kindness
One man has kindness deep within him; and when the occasion comes, the rind or shell is cracked, and the kernel is found. Such a mans heart, too long clouded, like a sun in a storm-muffled day, shoots through some opening rift, and glows for a period in glory. But there are other natures that are always cloudless. With them, a cloud is the exception, shining is the rule. They rise radiant over the horizon; they fill the whole heavens with growing brightness, and all day long they overhang life, pouring down an undiminished flood of brightness and warmth. (H. W. Beecher.)
Memory of kindness
Among the Alps, when the day is done, and twilight and darkness are creeping over fold and hamlet in the valleys below, Mont Rosa and Mont Blanc rise up far above the darkness, catching from the retreating sun something of his light, flushed with rose colour, exquisite beyond all words or pencil or paint, glowing like the gate of heaven. And so past favours and kindnesses lift themselves up in the memory of noble natures, and long after the lower parts of life are darkened by neglect, or selfishness, or anger, former loves, high up above all clouds, glow with Divine radiance and seem to forbid the advance of night any further. (H. W. Beecher.)
Origin of the word kindness
The very word kindness comes from the cognate word, kinned, that is, one of the same kin or race; acknowledging and reminding us of the fact that all men are brethren--all of the same blood--and therefore they should all act as brethren. All who are of the same kindred should be kind. (G. S. Bowes.)
The power of kindness
A horse passing down the street in a stage suddenly stood still, and refused to go. He put down his forefoot and became as stubborn as a mule. The driver beat him with great severity, but the animal still refused to go. Finally, a respectable person, a passer-by, picked up a little hay and put it before the horse. He ate it, and the friend kindly patted him on the neck and coaxed him. In a minute or two the stubbornness was gone, and the horse, with driver, were on their way. So let parents, masters, teachers, ministers, try the hand and food of kindness with all stubborn souls with whom they may have to do. (John Bate.)
The influence of a kind spirit
I remember once a valued friend of mine, a barrister, now passed away, who spent his Sundays in visiting an hospital. He told me that on one occasion he sat down by the bedside of one of the very poorest, the most ignorant, and, without using the word in any offensive manner, one of the very lowest men he had ever seen in his life--a man whose English, had it been taken down, would have been the most complete and perfect dislocation of the Queens English that he ever heard. No word seemed to be in its right place. It seemed as if that which should have been a jointed and vertebrated sentence had been separated at every joint, and thrown together anyhow. My friend was a man of the most tender spirit--a man whose tender spirit radiated from one of the most striking faces I ever saw; and I can well understand how he looked when he sat down by that poor mans bed. He began first, as all should who visit She sick, to break ground on temporal matters, to sympathize with them on that which they can understand so well--their bodily sufferings--to show that we are not indifferent to what they are suffering as men; and then, after speaking a few kind words, he was proceeding to say something further for his Master, whom he so dearly loved, when he saw the mans face begin to work convulsively. The muscles quivered, and at last, lifting up the sheet, and drawing down his head, he threw the sheet over his face, burst into a violent flood of tears and sobbed aloud. My friend wisely waited till this store of grief was passed, and then the poor fellow emerged from under the clothes, his face bearing the traces of tears that had flowed down it. When he was able to speak, my friend asked him--What is it that has so touched you? I hope that I have not said anything that was painful to you. What can have moved you so much? And as well as the man could sob out, he sobbed out these words: Sir, you are the first man that ever spoke a kind word to me since I was born, and I cant stand it. (Champneys.)
The priest and the surgeon
Dupuytren was a famous surgeon, but brusque and unpolished. One day, as he re-entered his house, he found installed in the anteroom an old priest, who had long been waiting his return. What do you want of me? growled Dupuytren. I wish you to look at this, meekly replied the priest, taking off an old woollen cravat, which revealed upon the nape of his neck a hideous turnout. Dupuytren looked at it. Youll have to die with that, he coolly remarked. I thank you, doctor, simply replied the priest, replacing his cravat, and am much obliged to you for warning me, as I can prepare myself, as well as my poor parishioners, who love me very much. The surgeon, who was never astonished at great things, looked upon this priest, who received his death sentence unmoved, with amazement, and said: Come tomorrow, at eight oclock, to the Hotel Dieu and ask for me. The priest was prompt. The surgeon procured for him a special room, and in a months time the man went out cured. When leaving he took out of a sack thirty francs in small change. It is all I have to offer you, doctor, he said; I came here on foot from R--, in order to save this. The doctor looked at the money, smiled, and drawing a handful of gold from his pocket, put it in the bag with the thirty francs, saying, It is for your poor, and the priest went away. Some years later the celebrated doctor, feeling death to be near, bethought him of the good priest, and sent for him. He came, and Dupuytren received from him the last consolation, and died in his arms.
A kind deed
Now, boys, I will tell you how we can have some fun, said Charlie to his companions, who had assembled one bright moonlight evening for sliding, snowballing, and fun generally. What is it? asked several at once. You shall see, replied Charlie. Whos got a wood saw? I have. So have I, replied three of the boys. Get them, and you and Freddy and Nathan each get an axe, and I will get a shovel. Lets be back in fifteen minutes. The boys separated to go on their several errands, each wondering of what use wood saws, and axes, and shovels could be in the play. But Charlie was a favourite with all, and they fully believed in his promises, and were soon assembled again. Now, said he, Widow M. has gone to a neighbours to sit up with a sick child. A man hauled her some wood today, and I heard her tell him that unless she got someone to saw it tonight, she would not have anything to make a fire of in the morning. Now, we could saw and split that pile of wood just as easy as we could make a snow man on her doorstep, and when Mrs. M. comes home she will be most agreeably surprised. One or two of the boys objected, but the majority began to appreciate his fun, and to experience that inward satisfaction and joy that always results from well-doing. It was not a long and wearisome job for seven robust and healthy boys to saw, split, and pile up the widows half-cord of wood, and to shovel a good loath. And when they had done this, so great was their pleasure and satisfaction, that one of them, who objected at first, proposed they should go to a neighbouring carpenters shop, where plenty of shavings could be had for the carrying away, and each bring an armful. The proposition was readily acceded to; and, this done, they repaired to their several homes, more than satisfied with the fun of the evening. And the next morning, when the weary widow returned from watching by the sick bed, and saw what was done, she was pleasantly surprised; and afterwards, when a neighbour (who had, unobserved, witnessed the labours of the boys) told her how it was done, her fervent invocation, God bless the boys! was of itself, if they could have heard it, reward enough.
For Christs sake
This is the great argument of awakened sinners, when they seek mercy at Gods hands.
I. Gods argument for mercy. He forgives us for Christs sake.
1. Let us consider the force of this motive by which God is moved to forgive sinners.
(1) The first thing which will move us to do anything for anothers sake is his person, with its various additions of position and character. The excellence of a mans person has often moved others to high enthusiasm, to the spending of their lives; ay, to the endurance of cruel deaths for his sake. In the day of battle, if the advancing column wavered for a single moment, Napoleons presence made every man a hero. When Alexander led the van, there was not a man in all the Macedonian ranks who would have hesitated to lose his life in following him. For Davids sake the three mighties broke through the host, at imminent peril of their lives, to bring him water from the well of Bethlehem. Some men have a charm about them which enthralls the souls of other men, who are fascinated by them and count it their highest delight to do them honour. How shall I, in a fitting manner, lead you to contemplate the person of our Lord Jesus Christ, seeing that His charms as far exceed all human attractions as the sun outshines the stars! Yet this much I will be bold to say, that tie is so glorious that even the God of heaven may well consent to do ten thousand things for His sake. He is Almighty God, and at the same time all-perfect Man. In the surpassing majesty of His person lies a part of the force of the plea.
(2) A far greater power lies in near and dear relationship. The mother, whose son had been many years at sea, pined for him with all a mothers fondness. She was a widow, and her heart had but this one object left. One day there came to the cottage door a ragged sailor. He was limping on a crutch, and seeking alms. He had been asking at several houses for a widow of such-and-such a name. He had now found her out. She was glad to see a sailor, for never since her son had gone to sea had she turned one away from her door, for her sons sake. The present visitor told her that he had served in the same ship with her beloved boy; that they had been wrecked together and cast upon a barren shore; that her son had died in his arms, and that he had charged him with his dying breath to take his Bible to his mother--she would know by that sign that it was her son--and to charge her to receive his comrade affectionately and kindly for her sons sake. You may well conceive how the best of the house was set before the stranger. He was but a common sailor; there was nothing in him to recommend him. His weather-beaten cheeks told of service, but it was not service rendered to her; he had no claim on her, and yet there was bed and board, and the widows hearth for him. Why? Because she seemed to see in his eyes the picture of her son--and that Book, the sure token of good faith, opened her heart and her house to the stranger. Relationship will frequently do far more than the mere excellence of the person. Our God had but one begotten Son, and that Son the darling of His bosom. Oh, how the Father loved Him.
(3) The force of the words, For Christs sake, must be found deeper still, namely, in the worthiness of the person and of his acts. Many peerages have been created in this realm which descend from generation to generation, with large estates, the gift of a generous nation, and why? Because this nation has received some signal benefits from one man and has been content to ennoble his heirs forever for his sake. I do not think there was any error committed when Marlborough or Wellington were lifted to the peerage; having saved their country in war, it was right that they should be honoured in peace; and when, for the sake of the parents, perpetual estates were entailed upon their descendants, and honours in perpetuity conferred upon their sons, it was only acting according to the laws of gratitude. Let as bethink ourselves of what Jesus has done, and let us understand how strong must be that plea--for Jesus sake.
(4) If any stipulation has been made, then the terms, for His sake, become more forcible, because they are backed by engagements, promises, covenants.
(5) It tends very much to strengthen the plea for Christs sake, if it be well known that it is the desire of the person that the boon should be granted, and if, especially, that desire has been and is earnestly expressed. No, beloved, if I anxiously ask for mercy, Christ has asked for mercy for me long ago. There is never a blessing for which a believer pleads, but Christ pleads for it too; for He ever liveth to make intercession for us.
2. Pausing a minute, let us enumerate some few other qualifications of this plea by way of comfort to trembling seekers.
(1) This motive, we may observe, is with God a standing motive; it cannot change.
(2) Remember, again, that this is a mighty reason. It is not merely a reason why God should forgive little sins, or else it would be a slur upon Christ, as though He deserved but little.
(3) Then, brethren, it is a most clear and satisfactory, I was about to say, most reasonable reason, a motive which appeals to your own common sense. Can you not already see how God can be gracious to you for Christs sake? We have heard of persons who have given money to beggars, to the poor; not because they deserved it, but because they would commemorate some deserving friend. On a certain day in the year our Horticultural Gardens are opened to the public, free. Why, why should they be opened free? What has the public done? Nothing. They receive the boon in commemoration of the good Prince Albert. Is not that a sensible reason? Yes. Every day in the year the gates of heaven are opened to sinners free. Why? For Jesus Christs sake. Is it not a most fitting reason? If God would glorify His Son, how could He do better than by saying, For the sake of My dear Son, set the pearly gates of heaven wide open, and admit His chosen ones.
(4) This is the only motive which can ever move the heart of God.
II. The believers great motive for service.
1. We begin with a few hints as to what service is expected of us.
(1) One of the first things which every Christian should feel bound to do for Christs sake is to avenge His death. Avenge His death, says one, upon whom? Upon His murderers. And who were they? Our sins! our sins!
(2) Then, next, the Christian is expected to exalt his Masters name, and to do much to honour His memory, for Christs sake. You remember that queen, who, when her husband died, thought she could never honour him too much, and built a tomb so famous, that though it was only named from him, it remains, to this day, the name of every splendid memorial--the mausoleum. Now let us feel that we cannot erect anything too famous for the honour of Christ--that our life will be well spent in making His name famous. Let us pile up the unhewn stones of goodness, self-denial, kindness, virtue, grace; let us lay these one upon another, and build up a memorial for Jesus Christ, so that whosoever passes us by, may know that we have been with Jesus, and have learned of Him.
(3) And above all, for Jesus sake should be a motive to fill us with intense sympathy with Him. He has many sheep, and some of them are wandering; let us go after them, my brethren, for the Shepherds sake.
2. A few words, lastly, by way of exhortation on this point. Clear as the sound of a trumpet startling men from slumber, and bewitching as the sound of martial music to the soldier when he marches to the conflict, ought to be the matchless melody of this word. Review, my brethren, the heroic struggles of the Lords people, and here we turn to the brightest page of the worlds annals! Think of the suffering of Gods people through the Maccabean war! How marvellous was their courage when Antiochus Epiphanes took the feeblest among the Jews to constrain them to break the law, and found himself weak as water before their dauntless resolve. Aged women and feeble children overcame the tyrant. Their tongues were torn out; they were sawn asunder; they were broiled on the fire; they were pierced with knives; but no kind of torture could subdue the indomitable spirit of Gods chosen people. Think of the Christian heroism of the first centuries; remember Blandina tossed upon the horns of bulls and set in a red-hot iron chair; think of the martyrs given up to the lions in the amphitheatre, amidst the revilings of the Roman mob; dragged to their death at the heels of wild horses, or, like Marcus Arethusa, smeared with honey and stung to death by bees; and yet in which case did the enemy triumph? In none! They were more than conquerors through Him that loved them! And why? Because they did it all for Christs sake, and Christs sake alone. Think of the cruelty which stained the snows of the Switzers Alps, and the grass of Piedmonts Valleys, blood red with the murdered Waldenses and Albigenses, and honour the heroism of those who, in their deaths, counted not their lives dear to them for Christs sake. Walk this afternoon to your own Smithfield, and stand upon the sacred spot where the martyrs leaped into their chariot of fire, leaving their ashes on the ground, for Jesus sake. In Edinburgh, stand on the well known stones consecrated with covenanting gore, where the axe and the hangman set free the spirits of men who rejoiced to suffer for Christs sake. Remember those fugitives for Christs sake, meeting in the glens and crags of Scotias every hill, for Christs sake. They were daunted by nothing--they dared everything for Christs sake. Think, too, of what missionaries have done for Christs sake. With no weapon but the Bible, they have landed among cannibals, and have subdued them to the power of the gospel; with no hope of gain, except in the reward which the Lord has reserved for every faithful one, they have gone where the most enterprizing trader dared not go, passed through barriers impenetrable to the courage of men who sought after gold, but to be pierced by men who sought after souls. (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Forgiveness made easy
The heathen moralists, when they wished to teach virtue, could not point to the example of their gods, for, according to their mythologists, the gods were a compound of every imaginable, and, I had almost said, unimaginable, vice. Many of the classic deities surpassed the worst of men in their crimes: they were as much greater in iniquity as they were supposed to be superior in power.
I. The first word to think about is, for Christs sake. We use these words very often; but probably we have never thought of their force, and even at this time we cannot bring forth the whole of their meaning. What does it mean?
1. It means, surely, first, for the sake of the great atonement which Christ has offered.
2. God has forgiven us because of the representative character of Christ. God for Christs sake has accepted us in Him, has forgiven us in Him, and looks upon us with love infinite and changeless in Him.
3. Now go a little further. When we read, for Christs sake, it surely means for the deep love which the Father bears Him.
4. God forgives sin for the sake of glorifying Christ. Christ took the shame that He might magnify His Father, and now His Father delights to magnify Him by blotting out the sin.
II. What it is that has been done for us, for Christs sake. God, for Christs sake, hath forgiven you.
1. Pardon is not a prize to be run for, but a blessing received at the first step of the race.
2. This forgiveness is continuous.
3. It is most free.
4. It is full.
5. Eternal. God will never rake up our past offences, and a second time impute them.
6. Divine. There is such a truth, reality, and emphasis in the pardon of God as you can never find in the pardon of man; for though a man should forgive all you have done against him, yet it is more than you could expect that he should quite forget it; but the Lord says, Their sins and iniquities will I remember no more forever. If a man has played you false, although you have forgiven him, you are not likely to trust him again. But see how the Lord deals with His people, e.g., Peter, Paul.
III. A point of practice. Forgiving one another, even as God for Christs sake hath forgiven you. Now, observe how the apostle puts it. Does he say forgiving another? No, that is not the text, if you look at it. It is forgiving one another. One another! Ah, then that means that if you have to forgive today, it is very likely that you will yourself need to be forgiven tomorrow, for it is forgiving one another. It is turn and turn about, a mutual operation, a cooperative service. (C. H. Spurgeon.)
A forgiving spirit
Gods pardon of sinners is full and free and irreversible, all sin forgiven--forgiven, not because we deserve it; forgiven, every day of our lives; and, when once forgiven never again to rise up and condemn us. Now, because God has pardoned us, we should cherish a forgiving spirit, and be as ready to pardon others as He has been to remit our trespasses. His example at once enjoins imitation, and furnishes the pattern. And thus the offences of others are to be pardoned by us fully, without retaining a grudge; and freely, without any exorbitant equivalent; and when pardoned, they are not to be raked out of oblivion, and again made the theme of collision and quarrel. According to the imagery of our Lords parable, our sins toward God are weighty as talents, nay, weighty and numerous as ten thousand talents; while the offences of our fellows toward ourselves are trivial as pence, nay, as trivial and few as a hundred pence. If the master forgive the servant so far beneath him such an immense amount, will not the forgiven servant be prompted by the generous example to absolve his own fellow servant and equal from his paltry debt? (Mat_18:23-35). In fine, as God in Christ forgives sin, so believers in Christ, feeling their union to Him, breathing His Spirit, and doing homage to His law of love, learn to forgive one another. (J. Eadie, D. D.)
The forgiveness of God
The literal meaning of the words of the text in the original is, as God, in Christ, hath forgiven you. This is exactly what they say, and this gives us the right idea of the forgiveness of God, of God revealing Himself in Christ. Now, Gods forgiveness in Christ does not stand alone; but must be a part of that whole revelation of God which we have in Christ. Christ came to reveal Gods fatherhood, Gods love, Gods righteousness, Gods forgiveness--all as parts of one great whole, and all for the one high purpose of reconciling men to God, of bringing back to Him in love and faith those who had sinned against Him. In each part of the whole there is the reconciling element, which gives its character to the whole. In each there is something, the knowledge of which should bring us to God in love and trust. And this in forgiveness can only be its freeness and fulness. This character pervades all that Christ teaches us about forgiveness in His spoken words: it pervades all that He exemplified in His own deeds, down to that last hour when He said, with His failing breath, Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do. What is the object of all forgiveness? It is not to smooth over the sin, and make it of little account. It is not to remove the natural penalty or consequence from the sin, so that you may sin and yet not suffer. It is to gain the sinner; to win him back from evil to good, from the devil to God. It is for this end God forgives--forgives because of His eternal desire to save men from sin, and lead them to holiness. His forgiveness is not a new power or new aspect of character, evoked in Him by His Sons life or death or sacrifice. It is an eternal element of His Divine nature, revealing itself to us, through Christ, in whom all His will for our salvation was revealed. To anyone capable of amendment of life, in whom the powers of the endless life are not quenched, nothing can appeal so strongly, nothing can exert so quickening an influence, as the consciousness of being freely forgiven for past errors, as the knowledge that these at least are not kept up as a barrier between him and the Father to whom he would fain return. Let us lay hold of this free and full forgiveness, brethren. Let us not be occupied with the mere selfish anxiety to be delivered from the penalty of our sin; but let us rather be filled with the earnest hope to be reconciled to our Father, against whom we have trespassed; and, through the consciousness of His goodwill towards us, to be animated with such gratitude, love, and trust, as shall strengthen us against all temptation, and restrain us from all transgression. (H. R. Story, D. D.)
Forgiving one another
Kindness and forgiveness may be, and often are, natural virtues. But you at once take them out of the natural, and elevate them into the spiritual--you Christianize them, and the old commandment becomes the new--when you make this both the reason of the exercise and the measure of the degree--as God in Christ hath forgiven you. Now take care that you read this verse aright. I have often heard it quoted--I have read it often in books--as God for Christs sake will forgive you. But that is not the basis from which the apostles argument here, and his argument everywhere, springs. Even as God for Christs sake hath forgiven you. So that if you are not a forgiven man, the argument drops. How can a machine go, if you take out the mainspring? How can love in the heart of a man move aright, without its motive power? And what motive power can move a man to bear all he has to bear, and to do all he has to do, in such a world as this, but love? And where is love if you are not forgiven? Nobody really knows God till he is forgiven; and how shall a man practise love till he knows God? Is not all love, God? Here, then, we take our beginning. As a mathematician claims a certain first principle, and assumes it is granted, and calls it his axiom, so we make it our axiom, You are forgiven. I cannot carry on my reasoning a single step without that. Now, in the character of this forgiveness--which is the elementary principle of all religion--there are three points, which I would ask you to look at in detail.
1. It was originating. I mean, it was not you went forth to it; but it went forth to you. It was ready before you thought of it. It was ready before you were born. It sought you. At the best, you can do nothing but accept it.
2. It is universal. It cannot, in the nature of things, be partial. I mean, there is no such thing as being forgiven for one sin, while, at the same time, you are not forgiven for another sin. It is all or none. The blood of Christ never washes one sin out. The robe of Christ never covers one part of a man. Everything is forgiven.
3. The forgiveness is absolute. There is not a vestige of displeasure. There is no resurrection of forgiven sins. They shall never be mentioned any more. They are cast into the depths of the sea. O brethren! what an atmosphere of love we ought all to be living in, as many of you as know Christ. What a practical rule and measure we have, by which to draw our line, every day, into thousands of little acts and thoughts. It is simply this--How did God act to me, when He stood in a corresponding relation to me? But I ask, Is any one of us living up to that standard? I think not. Therefore let us now look at our measurement. You see there are three things God tells us to be: kind; tender-hearted; forgiving. I am not sure that I know the exact distinction which is intended between those three words; but, I think it is something like this:--Kindness, is an affectionate feeling, always going out into action. The Greek word used has something o! using or serving in it. A tender heart, is a soft, impressible state, which predisposes to think and act kindly. And forgiveness is that loving spirit, which, preferring to suffer rather than to pain, sees no fault in another because it is so conscious of its own. It is important to notice that the tender heart is placed between kindness and forgiveness--the keystone of the little sacred arch. Everything depends upon it--a soft, tender state of heart. Need I remind you, that everything in the world, every day, is tending to brush off the bloom, and leave the substance underneath hardened? But whoever wishes to be a real Christian must, at all times, and in all places, be jealously watchful to keep his heart tender. The great business of life, it seems to me, is to keep the heart tender. But how is it that we are not all kind, tender, and forgiving? There are many causes; but they resolve themselves into one--pride! pride! (J. Vaughan, M. A.)
Forgiveness, for Christs sake
What great matter, said a heathen tyrant to a Christian while he was beating him almost to death--What great matter did Christ ever do for you? Even this, answered the Christian, that I can forgive you, though you use me so cruelly.
The necessity of a forgiving spirit
In the Middle Ages, when the lords and knights were always at war with each other, one of them resolved to revenge himself on a neighbour who had offended him. It chanced that, on the very evening when he had made this resolution, he heard that his enemy was to pass near his castle, with only a very few men with him. It was a good opportunity to take his revenge, and he determined not to let it pass. He spoke of his plan in the presence of his chaplain, who tried in vain to persuade him to give it up. The good man said a great deal to the duke about the sin of what he was going to do, but in vain. At length, seeing that all his words had no effect, he said, My lord, since I cannot persuade yon to give up this plan of yours, you will at least come with me to the chapel, that we may pray together before you go? The duke consented, and the chaplain and he kneeled together in prayer. Then the mercy-loving Christian said to the revengeful warrior, Will you repeat after me, sentence by sentence, the prayer which our Lord Jesus Christ Himself taught to His disciples?…I will do it, replied the duke. He did it accordingly. The chaplain said a sentence, and the duke repeated it, till he came to the petition, Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive them that trespass against us. There the duke was silent. My lord duke, you are silent, said the chaplain. Will you be so good as to continue to repeat the words after me, if you dare to do so: Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive them that trespass against us? I cannot, replied the duke. Well, God cannot forgive you, for He has said so. He Himself has given us this prayer. Therefore you must either give up your revenge or give up saying this prayer; for to ask God to pardon you as you pardon others is to ask Him to take vengeance on you for all your sins. Go now, my lord, and meet your victim. God will meet you at the great day of judgment. The iron will of the duke was broken. No, said he; I will finish my prayer. My God, my Father, pardon me; forgive me as I desire to forgive him who has offended me; lead me not into temptation, but deliver me from evil. Amen, said the chaplain. Amen, repeated the duke, who now understood the Lords Prayer better than he had ever done before, since he had learned to apply it to himself. (Preachers Lantern.)
Power of forgiveness
Some years ago a missionary was preaching in a chapel to a crowd of idol-loving Hindoos. He had not proceeded far in his sermon when he was interrupted by a strong native, who went behind the desk, intending to knock him down with his stick. Happily the blow aimed at the minister fell on his shoulder, and did him little, if any, injury. The congregation of hearers were, however, very angry with the offender, and they seized him at the very moment he was attempting to escape. Now, what shall I do with him? said the missionary to the people. Give him a good beating, answered some. I cannot do that, said he. Send him to the judge, cried others, and he will receive two years hard labour on the road. I cannot follow your advice, said the missionary again, and I will tell you why. My religion commands me to love my enemies, and to do good to them who injure me. Then turning to the man, he said, I forgive you from my heart; but never forget that you owe your escape from punishment to that Jesus whom you persecuted in me. The effect of this scene upon the Hindoos was most impressive. They wondered at it, and, unable any longer to keep silence, sprang on their feet and shouted, Victory to Jesus Christ! Victory to Jesus Christi (J. Pulsford.)
Complete forgiveness
It was said of Archbishop Cranmer, that the way to have him as ones friend was to do him an unkindness.
Conquered forgiveness
Samuel Harris, of Virginia, shortly after he had begun to preach, was informed by one of his debtors that he did not intend paying him the debt owed unless he sued him. Harris left the mans presence meditating. What shall I do? said he, for he badly wanted the money. Must I leave preaching and attend to a vexatious lawsuit. Perhaps a thousand souls may perish in the meantime. He turned aside into a wood and sought guidance in prayer. Rising from his knees, he resolved to hold the man no longer a debtor, and at once wrote out a receipt in full, which he sent by a servant. Shortly after the man met him, and demanded what he meant. I mean, said Harris, just what I wrote. But you know I never paid you, replied the debtor. True, Harris answered; and I know you said that you never would unless I sued. But, sir, I sued you at the court of heaven, and Christ has entered bail for you; I have therefore given you a discharge. But I insist matters shall not be left so, said the man. I am well satisfied, replied the other; Jesus will not fail me. I leave you to settle the account with Him at another day. Farewell! This operated so effectually on the mans conscience that in a few days he came and paid the debt. (H. T. Williams.)
John Wesley had a misunderstanding with his travelling companion, Joseph Bradford, which resulted in his saying overnight that they must part. In the morning Wesley inquired of him, Will you ask my pardon? No, said Bradbury. Then I will ask yours, said the great preacher. This broke Bradbury down, who melted under the speech and wept like a child. (Life of Wesley.)
A Christians forgiveness
After the death of Archbishop Tillotson a bundle of libels was found among his papers, on which he had written--These are libels; I pray God forgive the authors, as I do.
Forgiveness and restoration
I call to mind an occasion when the son of a Christian man was guilty of an act of disobedience in the home. Hearing of it, the father quietly but firmly said, Son, I am pained beyond measure at your conduct. How well, said that father, I remember his return from school at mid-day, his quiet knock at the study door, his clear tremulous utterance, Father, I am so ashamed of myself by reason of my conduct this morning. Refuse to restore him! said that father. Unhesitatingly I confess that I never loved my boy more than at that moment, nor did I ever more readily implant the kiss of forgiveness than at that instant. Refuse to restore him: disown him, have him leave the house, take another name, say that he had no place in the family--not my child! What blasphemy against humanity is this! And shall we dare to attribute such conduct to the Holy Father in heaven, who spared not His own Son, but freely delivered Him up for us all? (Henry Varley.)
Power of kindness
I have read that one of Dr. Guthries admirers was an old Scotch judge, who contributed a large sum to build a new church. But when the doctor left the Established Church, with the Free Church party, the judge was so much displeased that he ceased to call on him, and even refused to recognize him in the street. Twice the good doctor lifted his hat on meeting, but the judge gave no sign of recognition. The doctor said cheerily to himself, One more lifting of the hat, my lord, and then we are quits. One day a woman called at Dr. Guthries, begging for a seat in his church. The doctor said it was impossible to obtain one; all were engaged, and more than a score of applicants were waiting for a vacancy. She pleaded hard, but he saw no way to help her. At length she mentioned that she was housekeeper for Judge That changes the case, said the doctor. I would like to do him a favour for all his kindness to me in past days. You shall have a seat in my own pew. The woman left, after a profusion of thanks. The next morning there was a knock at the study door, and the judge entered. He came to thank the doctor for the kindness to his housekeepers after his own shabby behaviour, and to beg pardon for his foolish anger.
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B. W. Johnson 1891 · Public Domain 31, 32. These verses enforce sundry duties essential to…
31, 32. These verses enforce sundry duties essential to keeping “the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace” plain, every-day duties of life. Those of verse 31 are negative; those of verse 32 are positive.
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Paul finishes his instructions on what believers should not do and ends with what they must do.
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Put away all bitterness, rage, anger
"Put away" here is a metaphor for not continuing to have certain attitudes or behaviors. AT: "You must not allow these things to be part of your life: bitterness, rage, anger" (See: Metaphor)
rage
intense anger
Be kind
"Instead, be kind"
tenderhearted
being gentle and compassionate towards others
translationWords
anger
evil
forgive
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